Help am really confused. Female or male

Okay so i read up about know if it;s a male or female. And all my plants have white fair stick out etc. But they also have this ball shape part with red hairs sticking out does that mean it's a male. ?

No if there are hairs its female, males are sacs and they don't have hairs

In a word - No.

That is a calyx. Femal only.

Relax and have fun.

I hope so am trying to take pictures so you guys can see but my camera phone sucks.


Edit and yeah there calyx i just google them . what is that ?

The calyx is where the seed would develop if the plant got fertilized.