PICTURE of YOURSELF THREAD

doublejj

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Question:
Was the cabin a necessity or something that you had to do to feel you "had to do" to feel normal again?

Not a barb - an honest question.

A Catharsis of sorts?
Yes, I just had to do something with myself but I wasn't fit to be around people. I have no idea why my wife stayed with me. I found out years later that she was terrified the whole time & that still gets to me.:cry:
I think the log cabin saved my life. Gave me something else to focus on.
9-18-2011 log cabin 012.jpg
 

curious2garden

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Yes, I just had to do something with myself but I wasn't fit to be around people. I have no idea why my wife stayed with me. I found out years later that she was terrified the whole time & that still gets to me.:cry:
I think the log cabin saved my life. Gave me something else to focus on.
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I love that picture of her. I would love to see her graduation from school compared with this :) I think she was really happy is how I read this. But you know finishing school was 'happy'.
 

doublejj

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I love that picture of her. I would love to see her graduation from school compared with this :) I think she was really happy is how I read this. But you know finishing school was 'happy'.
A couple years after that picture (and after I came back to being civilized) we moved to Seattle & she went to 4 years of Nursing school.....so I guess something good came from it. But I would have left me, if I was her.
 

Roger A. Shrubber

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i know what you mean, there are days i wake up and i know it would be a good thing if i didn't have anything to do with people today.
i was married 7 years, and there were days i would have done anything to not have someone in my house....not just her, but anyone.
guess you got lucky and got over it before you broke up, i didn't. i don't actually regret it, but i do wonder what it might have been like if i would have gotten some meds about the time we met
 

doublejj

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When we moved to Seattle so my wife could attend Nursing school & I was looking for employment I went down to Boeing and there was a sign in the office window "NOT ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS...EXCEPT VETERANS. When the shop manager interviewed me he asked "So what have you been doing since you got back?" & I just showed him the log house pictures. He said "Your hired"....and they don't build log cabins at Boeing...lol
 

curious2garden

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When we moved to Seattle so my wife could attend Nursing school & I was looking for employment I went down to Boeing and there was a sign in the office window "NOT ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS...EXCEPT VETERANS. When the shop manager interviewed me he asked "So what have you been doing since you got back?" & I just showed him the log house pictures. He said "Your hired"....and they don't build log cabins at Boeing...lol
LOL of course they do, they just use sheet metal to make them! ;D Motivation and an agile mind are the keys. They don't seem to understand that today.
 

Singlemalt

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Yes, I just had to do something with myself but I wasn't fit to be around people. I have no idea why my wife stayed with me. I found out years later that she was terrified the whole time & that still gets to me.:cry:
I think the log cabin saved my life. Gave me something else to focus on.
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Have you ever gone back to see if it's still there?
 
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