Dont Tell Anybody....anybody!!!!

Picasso345 said:

This thought has always stuck in my mind:

If YOU can't even keep a secret, how do you expect other people to?

Given all that you have at stake and yet you still just can't keep from blabbing, why would you expect other people with nothing to lose to be quiet?

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you know....you just have my vote for the smartest man of the day.

If you MUST involve someone, make sure they have just as much to lose as you.

I would never tell any of my siblings, not because I don't trust them, just because they don't have any risk invested in the op.

However, if we get busted out of our house (which we wont), my husband and I are both going down for it because the house is in both our names. It's usually not like that with a sibling.

I know the #1 rule is telling no one, but I trust my siblings. My parents, never, but at least my two older siblings (younger one is still a bit immature) plus my two eldest siblings smoke. I've trusted these two with other things, as well as my life on several occasions. These people don't let down on stuff like this (on the other hand, ask them to remember to bring you a sandwich and you might as well have sent that message into outer space).

Granted, I haven't told my siblings I plan to grow, but they do know I have more of an interest in cultivation than I have in smoking.

yall r gonna be pretty fuckin lonely if u dont let anjyone come over....... stealth is where its at

I agree. Of course simply making your bedroom off limits and closing your door works too. Nothing wrong with maintaining personal privacy.

Why don't you just move the op to a friends house. I'm coming back home from college in a few weeks and asked a friend if I could have my op over at his house and he said it was fine. Just gotta give up about an oz or two but everything will be fine for you I'm sure.

arb254 said:

Why don't you just move the op to a friends house. I'm coming back home from college in a few weeks and asked a friend if I could have my op over at his house and he said it was fine. Just gotta give up about an oz or two but everything will be fine for you I'm sure.

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Same problem. Someone know's.....plus when you go look at your plant's they seem to keep missing top's................................

Telling NO ONE is THE essential ingredient in ones successfully executing any serious mischief anonymously. Few would ever be detected in their follies could they keep their own mouths shut. It's a lesson best learned early in life.

arb254 said:

Why don't you just move the op to a friends house. I'm coming back home from college in a few weeks and asked a friend if I could have my op over at his house and he said it was fine. Just gotta give up about an oz or two but everything will be fine for you I'm sure.

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even more dangerous. You gonna trust your friend to leave your plants alone, or not to have a party with enough people for 1 to slip away and find the op.

you people trust people too damn much.
im not saying that you are going to get busted for sure because of it, im just saying that its friggin absurd to even dream of taking that risk

all i know is my op has a nice piece of paper by it that states its for prop 215.... so LE can suck it, of course the DEA could rip it apart with out taking two seconds to read my prop 215 paper....

As far as security for the public, telling no one is the key, 1 person knows about mine and he has just as much invested as i do, and a few select people on here know about in through PM's, I am a private person and even with this great community of growers and people sharing their knowledge. I just don't find it necessary to advertise every detail of my op.

Half the fun of growing is knowing you grow what most people pay for, few are brave enough to do, and you know your friends (the smoking friends) would kill to do what your doing. I keep people on a need to know basis, they don't need to know, so they will never know.

joebuck said:

That really sux, GiantEthiopian.

You'd think that they would be sympathetic, especially with your back pain. I get wicked migraines and smokin' keeps them from getting to 100% if I can catch them in time. If I don't, it helps with the nausea that results from the damn migraine. Anyone who's seen me curled up in a ball crying because of the pain would understand. I have perscription meds for them but they make my neck kink up like a stripped screw and it becomes an issue of what hurts less.

Hopefully you & your sis can have a sit down and she'll get it someday. Some folks never learn though.

Sending good vibes your way.

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wow dude your story is the exact reason why i smoke,... i get killer migraines which cause pain that is really indescribable...

i too just curl up with my head down and hope to god i dont throw up...

throwing up while i have a migraine makes it much worse... but smoking does help,


I TOTALY FEEL YOUR PAIN> in fact i am getting one right now and i have to step away from the comp and go smoke

Picasso345 said:

This thought has always stuck in my mind:

If YOU can't even keep a secret, how do you expect other people to?

Given all that you have at stake and yet you still just can't keep from blabbing, why would you expect other people with nothing to lose to be quiet?

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Good comment. I originally didn't think a family member who would GAIN some very, very good weed, would actually be such an uncaring idiot.

There is another factor i think... Like that the guy said, any of my weed smoking buddies, would KILL to have the balls to be growing dope...

And sometimes, they will kill you, by calling the cops oi you.

arb254 said:

Why don't you just move the op to a friends house. I'm coming back home from college in a few weeks and asked a friend if I could have my op over at his house and he said it was fine. Just gotta give up about an oz or two but everything will be fine for you I'm sure.

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Dude, thx for the help, but growing with a partner is even a worse idea...

That is a bigger problem then telling a family member.

MrFishy said:

Telling NO ONE is THE essential ingredient in ones successfully executing any serious mischief anonymously. Few would ever be detected in their follies could they keep their own mouths shut. It's a lesson best learned early in life.

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Perfect advice.

GiantEthiopian said:

Dude, thx for the help, but growing with a partner is even a worse idea...

That is a bigger problem then telling a family member.

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Yep! I agree, don't involve a partner for sure. I would never trust someone with my plants.

GiantEthiopian said:

Dude, thx for the help, but growing with a partner is even a worse idea...

That is a bigger problem then telling a family member.

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good move my friend im sure your a-hole virginity thanks you.

Save your seeds and live to grow another day.

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Save your seeds and live to grow another day.

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hey hey hey try it when your sister moves away.

Coors said:

Tis might get me in trouble......... but never tell anyone any thing especially women!! they can never keep their mouths shut!! 8 =====D

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True, just ask Bill Clinton....

GiantEthiopian said:

Good comment. I originally didn't think a family member who would GAIN some very, very good weed, would actually be such an uncaring idiot.

There is another factor i think... Like that the guy said, any of my weed smoking buddies, would KILL to have the balls to be growing dope...

And sometimes, they will kill you, by calling the cops oi you.

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i didn't mean you so much, just that for me that saying is what has kept me from talking.

I would relax. I know it's tough, but people forget quick. Wait a month or two and see how things are then.