Got caught!! Just got out =(

shylas said:

I'm a wife who grows and I trust my husband. We both smoke and grow together. Now being a woman I know how emotionally charged things can get especially if your preggers. If you have a volatile relationship to begin with then yeah keep the secret but if you have a good relationship with spouse/ baby's momma no need to keep secrets. Hows she gunna feel if she does find out? She'll feel untrusted and betrayed and the chances of her turning you in are even greater.
Also lets be friendly, "do your unborn child a favor and get an education" Thats a bit harsh. To each his own, thats what makes the world go round.

Good luck with that domestic thing.

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thats differant hoes can trust bros (LOL)
adam didn't give eve the fruit
have you seen any mobster movie
women alway bring down the op.,,always every movie you can think of

I'll give you that one lol

no its all women, you ll think back on this thread when someone is bangin your gurl and your sittin at home wondering if you should throw your shit away lol

the truth if females dont trust other females

shylas said:

I'm a wife who grows and I trust my husband. We both smoke and grow together. Now being a woman I know how emotionally charged things can get especially if your preggers. If you have a volatile relationship to begin with then yeah keep the secret but if you have a good relationship with spouse/ baby's momma no need to keep secrets. Hows she gunna feel if she does find out? She'll feel untrusted and betrayed and the chances of her turning you in are even greater.
Also lets be friendly, "do your unborn child a favor and get an education" Calling someone ghetto trash, or whatver, not so nice.Thats a bit harsh. To each his own, thats what makes the world go round.

Good luck with that domestic thing.

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I agree. I wouldn't keep it from my wife. She lives in the same house as it is happening in. So to keep that from her, she would feel betrayed. Besides who do you think allowed me to spend my money to buy the stuff for growing. LOL. Yes I'm one of those, she controls the money in this house. But she never told me no.

That 5hit said:

the truth if females dont trust other females

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Yeah why is that. Females never trust other females. I have noticed that too.

jsteezy1290 said:

no its all women, you ll think back on this thread when someone is bangin your gurl and your sittin at home wondering if you should throw your shit away lol

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if your girl know's you grow and you catch her cheating
you beter throw everything away , no thinking to it

That 5hit said:

agreed .

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Not that I have anything big time going on, but my wife knows the profit potential. If she were to divorce me she knows that's her check. She wouldnt' mess that up.

I don't trust other females. I'm one of those chicks that always hung out with the guys. I work in a garage.

M4A1 said:

I agree. I wouldn't keep it from my wife. She lives in the same house as it is happening in. So to keep that from her, she would feel betrayed. Besides who do you think allowed me to spend my money to buy the stuff for growing. LOL. Yes I'm one of those, she controls the money in this house. But she never told me no.

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im the same way , but my wife and kids dont know about my grow they arent allowed inmy office (grow room)
me and the wife give each other an allowance so i dont ask her for $ and she dont ask me for $ after bill and savings we have are left over money
its' like 100 for me and 165 for her every 2weeks

shylas said:

I don't trust other females. I'm one of those chicks that always hung out with the guys. I work in a garage.

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but why ,, this is something i also always wanted to know i grew up the only male, youngest, with 2 older sister and they would say the same thing

GreatwhiteNorth said:

Sounds like quite a few of our esteemed RIU members are/have been involved with some nasty females. Find a good one with a loving heart & you'll find you can trust her with anything - or am I the only one lucky enough to marry a Peach?
GWN

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Well said and no you arent the only one lucky enuff to have a peach to call their own. Nothing finer than a peach! I love my peach dearly even if she talks a bit funny.

The domestic violence charge sucks but you did push her dude so it's to be expected. Fast thinking on your part to get the plant out of there tho.

Good luck with the woman.

jsteezy1290 said:

all women are two faced, everyone on here saying there woman wouldnt do that is in straight fucking denial, as soon as something happens thats the first thing they will throw in your face, because its illegal and they know you can get in trouble and that makes them sleep better at night. i know for a fact mine would at least threaten to go to the police but she also knows when i get out its goin down lol

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my girlfriend wouldnt sleep better at night knowing i was in jail for a plant because of her, sorry not the type of girls i go for, i like some class.

jsteezy1290 said:

all women are two faced, everyone on here saying there woman wouldnt do that is in straight fucking denial, as soon as something happens thats the first thing they will throw in your face, because its illegal and they know you can get in trouble and that makes them sleep better at night. i know for a fact mine would at least threaten to go to the police but she also knows when i get out its goin down lol

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jsteezey, thanks for the Marital advice, and you just might be right - after all we've only been married for 31 years/4 kids/ multiple moves/ financial troubles/ life changes etc... (and are still madly in love).
Thanks for the tip, I'll keep an eye on her from here on out.
GWN

GreatwhiteNorth said:

jsteezey, thanks for the Marital advice, and you just might be right - after all we've only been married for 31 years/4 kids/ multiple moves/ financial troubles/ life changes etc... (and are still madly in love).
Thanks for the tip, I'll keep an eye on her from here on out.
GWN

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Deeeeeeeeeeem hahahha

Keep it up, it is nice to be able to trust someone with your grow. If i have to go away for a long weekend i know i can depend on my woman to watch over the babies. I couldn't stand worrying about hiding the grow from her

Hiding things and lying to your soul mate is just wrong and fosters the distrust that most women-haters fear.

"Bros before Hoe's" is a primitive prison shit attitude - find a good girl, there's lots of them out there & see how nice it is to share your life.
GWN

I have been threatened once by my girl to call the cops, it was in the middle of heated argument. She is always tripping about what school to go to to get her degree and why is she here, just for you, kind of shit. She is the most fucking indecisive person in the world and it just pisses me off, in reality she depends on me for everything and her hapiness. But when that threat came up, I just said, "I dont want to discuss it" and that was the end of it. Maybe it goes back to that respect thing, but I think people just like to feel like they have some power or control, but after a straight up statement like that the argument was done and phase two began, the apologies. I know I am a man because I can apologize for shit that I don't feel a bit sorry about, just to keep the peace. Thats what being a man is. Some people would be best to learn that.

Married for almost 14 years and when I was younger I did shit my wife had every right to call the cops on me for...but she never did.

I bet that sounds about right for a lot of guys on here if we were to all be honest about it...especially for me since I never started even smoking pot until my 30's.

My wife knows EVERYTHING about me....EVERYTHING...even shit I could go away for FOR A LONG TIME!

To me it is all about the woman you have. If she is all about drama and loves to cause upsets then goodluck the first time you ever fuck up. If she does everything to avoid confrontation and arguments then the chances of her keeping quiet about your growing is good.

But some women like a good story to tell...just because their bored....maybe the OP should buy some premium cable channels and keep his girl busier....you know idle hands make work for the Devil....

Have her wash the dishes, make dinner, mow the grass, keep her busy! LMFAO....sorry

Any 1 turneD me in I would blow off there head when I got out. Anyone that turns someone in for growin weed deserves to die painfully !! Any one that tries to break in my house will get shot in the head with a 12 gauge then shot more times with my ak47. That before I stick em in my hamburger grinder and feed them slowly to my pirranhas.

Hidden Agenda said:

For your unborn child's sake, please get an education and stop being such ghetto-trash.

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