Help me harvest right

Hey guys, I need a little help in my garden this morning...my girls is around 70 days + into flower, tricromes are around 90% cloudy, while few are still see through...
my buds have begun to stink about a week or more ago and also seem to swell in the middle, and the pistils have begun to receed...Before I bought a microscope I set my girl to flush presuming she was ready, due to 15% - 25% amber pistils...Right now Id say the buds are almost 35% - 45% covered in amber pistils, but my largest bud is showing growth at the top, but of very tiny buds, where the stem is still some what visible...

does this mean I should put her back on a low nute regiment for another week and then flush? Or just continue my flush till the end?

Sativa or Indica, also how bout a few photos?

I havent put a photo of a bud on the internet in a couple of yrs now sadly, dam paranoia

but shes a Barneys Farm Vanilla kush
vegged her for 4 weeks
flowering for more then two 1/2 months maybe +
and to better explain whats going on with my largest bud, its as if theres one big bud, then a cm of stem and a tiny bud at the very top, strange?
aslo my leaves around the buds are curling downwards on some buds, while others not at all