hiding in the shadows

mexiblunt said:

I am affraid that I'll never have that fear. I would love to have a kid or kids. I could handle being a single dad If I had to.

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..famous last words.
"if I had to"--most of us handle the situation "if we have to" But never as well as we should/could or would like to.

You don't actually have the fear until it's actually present.....fair warning.

Im fucking terrified of spiders to.
I gotta admit though that one rob posted looked like a straight bitch lol.
I seen what spiders poison could do to someone.This lady I knew had to get a hole cut in her side and she had to vacum all the shit out of it everyday for a few months its fucking sick.

June bugs. Bleh! They give me the heebie jeebies. I got bitten by a bug that looked a lot like a june bug when I was a kid.He held onto my figer and I had a hell of a time getting it off. They say june bugs don't bite,but whatever it was sure looked like one.

Im afraid to show my emotions, or even try to call her to take her a date..i fear rejection..

i'm 45 years old and am still intimidated by women , its my fear of rejection even with my wife to this day

my fear of rejection paralyses me to such an extent that i've given up attempting to date. it makes me shaky and nauseous and just crazy...

my wife is the right person for me we've been married five years ,she is my soul mate ,once the right person comes along sara you'll know and the fear becomes manageable ...rob

robert 14617 said:

my wife is the right person for me we've been married five years ,she is my soul mate ,once the right person comes along sara you'll know and the fear becomes manageable ...rob

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thank you

Babs34 said:

..famous last words.
"if I had to"--most of us handle the situation "if we have to" But never as well as we should/could or would like to.

You don't actually have the fear until it's actually present.....fair warning.

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I don't know what your trying to say? Never hear of those being last words either. Maybe "If I had to do that again".

I quoted someone who feared raising a child or children on thier own. I KNOW that it would be fearfull for me raising a child alone or with the mother. I want that fear and even fear I won't Actually have that fear. If what your saying is akin to "carefull what you wish, you just might get it" Then yes I am wishing for that fear. Some don't like feeling fear some do.

There are alot of crazy things I've done that would not have been possible without fear. Bring it on!

Stoney McFried said:

June bugs. Bleh! They give me the heebie jeebies. I got bitten by a bug that looked a lot like a june bug when I was a kid.He held onto my figer and I had a hell of a time getting it off. They say june bugs don't bite,but whatever it was sure looked like one.

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F&%kk
Visions of that just coming alive and jumping out at you!
Looks like a big fat hairy roach!
I don't think I will be eating tonight.

If you step on them, they crunch......

Babs34 said:

F&%kk
Visions of that just coming alive and jumping out at you!
Looks like a big fat hairy roach!
I don't think I will be eating tonight.

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I fear others judgment...some things are hard to understand or explain unless one has been there...

I fear that I don't have enough to finish what I want to do.

CK

Just to clarify a few things.. it is not the fear of being a single parent. Its the fear of failing as a parent. Its a scary feeling to know that if I fail or if I fall they fail or fall with me.

That is exactly how I took it.