bloomfields
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i agree i am hiding it , pushing it under the carpet getting wasted , i know this .....i am cleverer than most therapists , they dont like you laughing at them......
How can i stop smoking everyday ...............please help.....=)
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bloomfields
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easy for you to stand there with your chest out huh ??? i hope your family never have to go through what mine did.... im asking a website full of ppl who do what i have a problem with , i wasnt getting snippy as u can see we took eachother wrong.....dreams are not nightmares and ive seeken proffesional help and yes you are a dick.
Carne Seca
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Dreams are a way of processing information. Sometimes that information is a little too traumatic to process and you end up with nightmares/night terrors/insomnia/mystery pain/physical illness - as I stated earlier, it's only going to get worse. As far as being smarter than a therapist? They are only as good as the information you supply them. They aren't psychic. They are there to help you. Why would play games with someone that is only trying to help?
Anyway. Good luck whatever you decide on.
Anyway. Good luck whatever you decide on.
SCCA
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bloomfields, sorry to hear your trouble man. i gotta agree with lostdove, a psychologist may be able to help you find ways to cope with whats bugging you. i would also like to suggest you look into lucid dreaming and learn to take control of your dreams. i have had intense, vivid dreams since i was a child, not really nightmares just intense. it got to the point that i was so stressed by the dreams that i had anxiety about going to sleep. i studied up on lucid dreaming techniques and became able to recognize these dreams when they started. now i am able to sleep through the night and even do some really interesting things while im dreaming, the whole time aware that it is a dream and i am in control.
Greenmash
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im gonna agree with Doobie not that im tryin to talk shit or nothin just that you gotta face your problems and deal and ya gotta learn to "take it as it comes" i know it sucks but it is what it is i know all about death i was in the army for 6 years so i can understand what u mean by loseing somebody but the point im trying to make is you cant hide behind weed forever.
My little dog died on New Year's Eve.
I came home, medicated and felt fine. I was on holidays, so I continued to medicate until one day, about a week later, I was cooking dinner. I burnt the onions and blew up, yelled and got all pissed off at my wife. Of course, it had nothing to do with the onions, or my wife, I just missed my little dog.
For me, it allowed me to push down and avoid some feelings, but eventually the feelings wouldn't be denied. They were still there, and came bursting out.
Somewhere you have to find a way to deal with your issues, because eventually, your onions will burn too, and whatever is in your noggin is going to come bubbling out.
Good luck.
I came home, medicated and felt fine. I was on holidays, so I continued to medicate until one day, about a week later, I was cooking dinner. I burnt the onions and blew up, yelled and got all pissed off at my wife. Of course, it had nothing to do with the onions, or my wife, I just missed my little dog.
For me, it allowed me to push down and avoid some feelings, but eventually the feelings wouldn't be denied. They were still there, and came bursting out.
Somewhere you have to find a way to deal with your issues, because eventually, your onions will burn too, and whatever is in your noggin is going to come bubbling out.
Good luck.
bloomfields
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you have to imagine everyone you loved being taken away from you at once in 1 horrible swoop , im not looking for attention and i have saught after endless amounts of proffesional advice, i am going to try the warm milk, and the vapouriser thing , im not here to agrue with ppl , this is a genuine problem for me , i dont wish it to be this way , any other good sleep no weed soloutions will be very welcome , thanks again ........
bloomfields
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Soz but , what is a tincture please ??
tomahawk2406
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this is way past weed dude, when things like this happen you need help. go to a therapist. open up to someone, cry, get mad, break shit, but in the end understand. the only thing you'll hear from people is most likely to move on. and of course as yourself, your saying "you have no fucking clue what its like fuck you guys" and thats a normal reaction. I've been in situations where i've said it myself. HOWEVER, in the end when time passes and life goes on, moving past bad experiences and gaining knowledge from why things happened IS THE ONLY WAY to move on. stop smoking weed and talk to your family more often, spend time more time with them, go places with them, keep occupied and most importantly appreciate their company more often. sorry for whats going on i hope you get through it.
bloomfields
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i imagine you loved your dog , i have a puppy and hes awesome ......bit more serious tho , but thanx i get where your coming from
bloomfields
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thanks , day to day life is fine we get on great , my son is amasing , they havnt complained at all , its those night hours ya know , i wanna be better for them , up to now i cant face the mares , it just aint possible , i need something that only effects me when im asleep , not just before , i dont maul weed , i dont have an addictive personality , i have grown for years as my ma and pa did before me , its just the only thing that works , is all
Greenmash
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Either way i really don't care about your little situation i just think you should know you are fighting an uphill battle you need to deal and get past it trust me just watch 1 episode of that show intervention and you'll see what i mean.
Carne Seca
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You might want to look into restoril. i was taking that when they had me on paxil, wellbutrin, depakote, and risperdal. I was like a zombie. But I didn't dream. I finally found a great therapist that helped me through the worst part and gave me the tools to deal with the rest. Now I only use Cannabis at night to help me sleep. I deal with night-terrors and cannabis really helps. I'm not waking up running out the front door anymore or waking up standing in the front yard. I hated that.
DoobieBrother
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Get over yourself. Your brand of suffering isn't any worse than what others, myself included, go through on a daily basis. I hold my chest out because I have faced my problems. As for your pathetic little dreams, the meds that keep me alive cause me to dream in the most horrible fashion your tiny little mind could conceive of. But they are just dreams. You're coming off like a pussy.
Carne Seca
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Do we REALLY have to go there? Seriously? Isn't there enough arguing and bitching on this board? Everyone relax and drop the internet egos for a second. We're all suffering in one way or another. As the Buddha says, All life is suffering. That's the basis for compassion. Only a bleeding heart truly knows compassion. Let's be a little more compassionate and little less antagonistic.
bloomfields
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go away (Y)
bloomfields
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pathetic little dreams ???? i take it you have a familly then , how nice for you , now fuck off(Y)
Mel O'Cheddar
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Go to the Harvesting/ Curing boards and look up "Honey Oil".
Someone mentioned Lucid Dreaming. Go check that out too. Google or Bing it.
I was going through a really, really tough time about 5 years ago but some stubborn part of me decided I wasn't going to a shrink so I can empathize. Whether or not you're stubborn is something I can't judge from here. But if your doctor won't give you anything but knockout pills, I think it's time to change doctors. As someone with a chronic neurological condition, let me tell you, a second opinion can make a WORLD of difference. I just looked up the hospital I wanted to go to and picked out the coolest sounding name listed in the department out of the Yellow Pages. That might not be the best way of choosing a doctor
but like I said, let someone get a fresh take on the situation. Good luck either way brah.
bloomfields
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ok ty , i appreaciate your help , im gonna end this thread now as i expected some useful comments like yours , not all this hate shit , i no everyone has there problems , but im not stopping anyone starting there own thread , cant believe ppl are jumping on me for asking advice , i find it hard to discuss with ppl i dont no , anyway thanks again
bloomfields
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i think i may look up another doctor as not really gettin anywhere fast , thankyou for your comments ....Go to the Harvesting/ Curing boards and look up "Honey Oil".
Someone mentioned Lucid Dreaming. Go check that out too. Google or Bing it.
I was going through a really, really tough time about 5 years ago but some stubborn part of me decided I wasn't going to a shrink so I can empathize. Whether or not you're stubborn is something I can't judge from here. But if your doctor won't give you anything but knockout pills, I think it's time to change doctors. As someone with a chronic neurological condition, let me tell you, a second opinion can make a WORLD of difference. I just looked up the hospital I wanted to go to and picked out the coolest sounding name listed in the department out of the Yellow Pages. That might not be the best way of choosing a doctor