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GanJulia said:

HELLO RIU,

I havent been on much because recently school and my social life has taken over. I've been seeing this man recently for several months now and i know his friends, he knows mine, and we enjoy time together alone and with friends getting fucked up. Things have been going really well, and I'm really starting to get strong feelings for him. I've been trying to grab my balls and talk to him about us because we havent made it verbally clear that were boyfriend and girlfriend yet, even though everyone says we are. TODAY I WAS REALLY FUCKING HIGH AND DID THIS

Doug - Ill call you later after class and you can come over
Julia - Okay sounds good, love you

JULIA IMMEDIATELY FREAKS OUT

I just apologized and said im sorry and was like i dont know why i said that blah blah, he laughed and said it was okay. I was so emberassed he kept hugging me and im like you should gooooo he then said no really its okay, ill see you later, bye etc.

I havenet heard from him since then but its not unusual. It would be unusual if he didnt call me after class today. Should I text him now and be like im sorry or say something? Should i wait for him to contact me and just let it go?

It is way too soon for us to be saying that, and im obviously just an emotional wreck over him right now and I dont know why I said it. I'm really emberassed. Advice please

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Johnnyorganic said:

No need to be embarrassed.

Your true feelings found a path through your word hole in an unguarded moment.

In legal terms it is what is known as an 'excited utterance.'

That's all it was.

Obviously he did not freak out and that is good. It is possible he feels the same way, but his word hole security is more elaborate.

Good for you for connecting with someone.

Relax.

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