Mind your own fooking business or don't

Garden Knowm said:

You know CCodiane..

I'm really sorry for all the nasty things i said... I want to make things better between us... I don't want you to break my arm or feel obligated to play naked patty cake with me... and I sure as hell don't want you to have to "settle" for a knock out or choke out....

how about we just start over..? we can start BRAND NEW...

I'll never mention that I bought a BJ from your mom for the entire high school football team for 25 cents.. and that she then used the money to get your "younger brother" aborted at the corner barbershop..

and you will never call me a lib again...

cool?

fair?

and if you insist, you can still try and break my arm

iloveyou

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ccodiane said:

Chapter 3- "Reconciling With Those You've Wronged"

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Garden Knowm said:

hey ccodiane - stop hijacking threads...



iloveyou

and mind your own business

lol

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ccodiane said:

Hi-jack? This was a retaliatory strike. Remember the "Climate Crisis Fraud" thread in the politics forum where you preemptively attacked me, again? Anyhow, if you can't stand the heat..............

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Garden Knowm said:

don't forget to bring over the quote that you fabricated under my name

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Garden Knowm said:

fyi - your source is a half eaten moldy peanut between your ears... and we all know it has no credibility... LOL

great visual huh? lol

Try looking beyond ME ME ME ME ME ME, I I I I I I I I ... just try to have a single thought that does not originate with YOU... just try it.. you're right,

In YOUR LITTLE TINY imaginary world, with your SELF CENTERED SOURCE... global warming does not exist.. now just join the rest of us and you can see what we are talking about... it still may not exist... but then at least you will be able to contribute on a level that exceeds a fooking legume.


iloveyou

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email468 said:

i'm beginning to really like the "mind your own fooking business" concept.
I think i'll start right now

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Garden Knowm said:

nice twist.... very nice.. and the plot thickens!!!

lol

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Garden Knowm said:

And if you practice it for a while, you may come to
see that you dont have any business either and that
your life runs perfectly well on its own,....

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Garden Knowm said:

Mr. CCODIANE -

Are you saying that my book would only have 3 chapters?

What a shame.. cause the first 3, look so enticing!

ilovyou

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ccodiane said:

Yeah, it would make a great pop-up book.......

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Garden Knowm said:

I can try and give you an example of not having any business...

While growing up you are molested by your Mom's boyfriend and your mom knows about it.

You spend the next 30 years of your life upset that you are molested and blame your mom for not doing anything to stop the molestation. THIS is how you live your life.. BLAMING people.. this becomes your business... a shitty business.. butit is the most common business that people RUN..

When you have BUSINESS, you tell YOURSELF a story about the event.. you say something along the lines of

"i was molested and it is my moms fault, she could have stopped it, I hate her, and I don't trust anybody anymore and all molesters should be executed and my life sucks because MY MOM let this happen to me."

JUST look around... most people run this BUSINESS... sad but true...

WHY bother telling yourself that story? EGO TRIPPING PATHETIC MIND DWELLERS...
THEY want your business. and they want an excuse to BLAME you for something.. because that is the business they are in...

BLAMING people is always the first sign of "trapped in mind"

when you don;t have BUSINESS... you accept the fact that you were molested.. and you leave it at that.. You don;t make it into something other than what it is..

I was molested and I am not going to LET that event make me a hateful person... I will LOVE, And I will accept the responsibility of having a happy life... will not hurt others just because I was hurt... I am honest with myself and KNOW that hurting people must stop.. I must stop hurting people..

This is a story that helps close YOUR BUSINESS... end your business.. so that you can actually LIVE....

When ONE is alive... they realize ONE thing... "i don't know" . and the power and love flood from the core to every cell of your being...

I can give you another example.. something that is not so emotionally charged...

You step out onto your front porch wearing your favorite bathrobe holding a bowl of your favorite cereal (grapenuts covered in sugar) to admire your brand new Harley.

You see that your bike has been knocked over and RUN over.

you feel tense and some frustration in your body..
You take a deep breath.. and relax the muscles that tightened involuntarily... take a bite of your cereal and savor the great taste. You put the bowl down.. walk over to the bike, stand the bike up and asses the damage.. YOU don;t get upset, because you realize that having a smashed bike is BAD enough, why add "upset" to the equation.

You then call the tow truck driver who arrives promptly... SHE is the most incredible woman you have ever seen... she drives you and your bike to the mechanic shop.. the automotive repair guy says a truck came in that looks like it hit your bike... "the owner is in the waiting room".... You go into the waiting room and ask the owner of the truck if he hit your bike.. he says his truck was stolen last night.... you never accuse, you never get upset, you never waiver from just being IN the NOW... you don;t make up a story or get HUFFY and puffy..

sure, you experience anger and sadness and happiness, and relief as the story unfolds BUT you never act or react based on these "feelings" YOU are YOU.. somebody with NO BUSINESS... just a LIFE that you watch like a PERFECT movie...

WHY would you try and alter a perfect movie?

The tow truck driver offers to drive you home.. she asks if you want to drive the tow truck.. you accept... you enjoy the new experience of driving the tow truck and the trippy gear ratio... You feel the power and hear a voice inside suggest you that you switch professions to "tow truck driver".. you watch this thought and are soon distracted as the driver (hot hunny) undoes your belt buckle and begins to handle your KAK better than YOU can... she guzzles down a load or two and drops you off at your house.

You walk up to your front porch and notice the half eaten soggy bowl of grape nuts.. You smile with incredible pleasure, knowing that there is nothing better in life than soggy grapenuts.. you finish your bowl, go inside and notice it is only 9:30am.

just in time to watch sponge head bob square pants..

iloveyou

This is LIFE with NO business.


Life starts to really pick up speed and become a great story.. because you don;t celebrate the good times or wallow in the bad times... life just becomes this amazing story that takes YOU higher than any celebration or sadness could EVER even touch...


to get to this place.... YOU have to stop taking the roll of the main character so seriously... death of THE I AM ME...

death of the ego... flash of the white light.... a serious practice in meditation...


iloveyou

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email468 said:

This sounds very much like emotional detachment or "intellectualizing" - knowming you (get it) i seriously doubt you are advocating that but wanted to point out the dangerous similarity. I say dangerous since being emotionally detached, analytical and intellectual about life can remove a lot of sorrow, frustration and anger yes, but also robs us of euphoric pleasures and emotional involvement. Like most things, extremes are to be avoided and meeting somewhere in the middle - having a passion for life but knowing how and when and where to be passionate is the key i think.

your examples where personal, touching, and illuminating.

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