The grommets are called Uniseals, they can be ordered directly from cch2o:
http://cch2o.com/index.php?main_page=index&cPath=52_56
I'm using a chiller for each system the black one is an ecoplus 1/10hp chiller and the other is a 1/4hp chiller. Both are overkill for the 20
gallons I have in each system but they barely kick on, more for piece of mind since without my res temps were 73-75 and I want 0% chance
of root rot.
I used my 1/4hp chiller for my aeroflo systems with over 100g of water and it worked just fine. Not sure what kind of ambient temperatures you
have but 1/4 might be enough to get the job done, if you can afford it I would go ahead and get the next biggest one you can find just so you're
not stuck with a chiller that isn't cutting it.
I'm not highly impressed with the 5g round buckets and the uniseal combination. I've had to use silicone glue on a few spots where the seals just
don't cut it. Getting a square container is definitely in my to do list as I think this will eliminate any risk of leaks and help the uniseals work much
better. I've heard of a few people ordering 8/13g containers from here:
http://www.bayteccontainers.com/ez-stor--square-plastic-containers-and-lids.html