small buds and all the hairs are already brown?

Thats definetly nut burn or sodium build up flush them if you can and for next time dont use miricale grow it tends to burn your plants alot expecially if you are using other ferts and stuff as supplemental foods.

yea, im planning to flush. but it keeps raining and i want to let it get a chance to dry up

If it's the MG organic soil, then you are in much better shape than the stuff with the little beads/balls of fertilizer in it. The stuff with the beads will continue to release more fertilizers while adding water. If it's the organic stuff, then flushing is definitely a good idea. stop adding molasses, this is putting more nitrogen into the soil, and the plant might not be able to recover because there is too much sugar in the soil for the mircoorganisms to do their job. If you want to flush plants in the ground, you're basically gonna have to put the hose next to them and turn it on, leave it there, do something for a little while, and come back.