so I plan..

I have already started the sponge process with about 6 or 7 seeds, and they are showing results of growing. (By the way, this is my very first time) I plan to take a good looking seed (i heard the white seeds are the femal ones..? i don't know if thats true or not but information on this would help) and plant it in a small pot, not too big, not too small and grow it as i would a regular plant over this summer time, and further on in time. can anyone give me suggestions or things im doing wrong perhaps, any help is highly appriciated, thank you so much.

another thing... I have also heard that if you want to keep the plant from growing too big all you have to do is to pintch the ends of the bud where the stems would grow out to stop the growing process? something of that sort but information of keepign the plant to a minimum would be nice.

welcome to the forum. Funny, I've always hear the dark seeds are best. Go figure.
Congratulations on getting started before you are "100% ready. You would be wise to read some grow journals posted by others in this forum. Try to pick a few that sound close to what you are thinking about doing.
Formulate a plan. Space, lighting, venting etc. and share it. We will all try to help you when we can. VV

Thanks a lot for the information, I plan to keep in touch.

White or green seeds are often immature and many times are not viable. However, you never know until you try!

They are definitely NOT females merely because they are white. That'd just be TOO EASY.

There are threads that supposedly outline how to spot a female SEED..but I don't believe em to be true and have never seen one of these folks weed through 100 seeds and pull out 10 females in a ratio greater than anyone else can have when they pop seed....

If I'm wrong I'd love to see a video grow diary all the way through that outlines this process fully and in detail. Anyone?

good luck

bt dt