Girl Jacking Me Around, Can't Figure Out What To Do.

[ElectricPineapple]

ok, so i just posted in a thread kindof similar, but its not really a weed issue.

ok, so i met this girl about a year ago and we have been off and on since then. well in the last month my feelings for her have greatly increased, yet now in the last week, i feel like she has been jerking me around and just yanking my chain.

now she says she just wants to be friends for right now, but then she goes on and says she doesnt think a long distance relationship is good for us. WE LIVE AN HOUR AND A HALF AWAY. not that long distance, since i commute nearly an hour for my job.

should i stick with it, or just call it quits and end it. im kindof torn with this one

 

[Jamielee]

Sorry to hear about your situation but she could be serious. Maybe the idea of moving for a relationship scares her. Being independent is important and giving that up for a relationship is a really difficult choice. After a year and a half of off and on is she seeing other people or is she just expressing uncertainty? If she is hopping around between dudes walk away now but if she is being straight with you and is just having a difficult time committing to you then encourage her to talk. I know how men love that but if she cares for you eventually she will feel you are worth the risk.
Women like to know a guy will "weather the storm" for them and I am not saying put up with her using you as a rebound guy. If she keeps coming back trying again she must have an interest eventually knowing you are there for her will let her begin to trust that you aren't like all the other men and drop her on her face when she falls.

 

[thatguy830]

not trying to be a douche but yeah you should i would do it now b4 u got too much further on into the realtionship...but stay close friends with her

 

[Mr.KushMan]

Some say the 'we can still be friends' statement is like saying " Yeah, my dog died but I am going to keep it anyway." However in another sense just walking away from a potentially irreplaceable life experience is a waste, it comes back to what you want.

Theres no shortage of girls out there, and there is no limiting potential to your happiness.

I remember I was really invested in this one broad, great white buffalo, but never really intimate. Then when she said that she didn't want to have those feelings for me, I was more than happy to hear I didn't have to push it with her and that it wasn't really going to be an issue on my shoulders anymore.

Peace

 

[thatguy830]

pack a bowl of some dank or roll a fatty then sit and think about what move is best for you...you should have an epiphany

 

[ElectricPineapple]

well intimacy was never really an issue. she has seen other guys but says she was never interested. its just i keep getting mixed feelings. like earlier she said that she wanted to be with me that has why she has stuck around through all of my bullshit, but then she goes and says that we both dont need to be in a long distance relationship. btw she was suppose to come down today, had mad echoc covered strawberries and got her this nice necklace when i was on vacation. ( i really care about her but dont know if im wasting my time) i changed my shift to be able to see her, which meant i had to wake up at 4 this morning instead of going in at 5pm. all she told me was she didnt want to come down because we were just going to be friends right now.

 

[ElectricPineapple]

man thatguy, if i could do that right now my problems would be solved, except i have to stay clean for the time being. its been killing me. needed a big fatty yesterday so bad

 

[thatguy830]

all i can say is that u changed to help ur relationship and she seems like she could care less

 

[ElectricPineapple]

well she tells me that she cares but im thinking that she doesnt really. and i just saw your post in my journal. haha we arent hitched. oh and another minus, she definitely doesnt know i grow and frowns on me smoking. even though smoking is what keeps me sane. and is that a painting you have thatguy?

 

[crystalman]

dude dont let her run game on you , shes messing with your head i say you try a little reverse on her and tell her your in the middle of something when she caLLS

 

[J.cun.Shallow]

sounds like she's using you to me. sorry

 

[desertrat]

10 to 1 odds she is already seeing someone else and you're getting the soft good bye

 

[tea tree]

sounds like she called it quits man. Sorry. You'll move on. That is a cool thing. Moving on. It is like the past never happened even tho it matters so much now. Call her some names to yourself, lol. Join the gym. If she sees you again then maybe you'll get lucky. Who knows what a woman is up to.

 

[ElectricPineapple]

ya thats what i bet it is. a soft goodbye. has happened to me before, will probably happen again. just wish i woulda known that before i bought this for her.

btw we were all good when i bought this for her.

ya its a carat and a half.

 

[desertrat]

man, if you feel that strongly about her, why not at least take one good shot at getting her back? the worst that can happen is you'll fall on your face, but that's better than living with regrets.

 

[ElectricPineapple]

see, i have tried. i havent talked to her all day, so i think it may be done. oh well. ill give her her space and see what happens there.

 

[thatguy830]

haha i wish man i found it on the internet. i thought it was pretty bomb. so currently at this time u r not burnin because of her? and she lives an hr and a half away?

 

[ElectricPineapple]

haha, no im not burning because i have to pass a hair follicle july 15th. definitely not because of her. no girl could stop me burning the ganja.

 

[cdrippper2]

Sucks man. But from the sounds of it, she had someone else in mind the whole time. Females can be shady as fuck man (mind games)

 

[thatguy830]

agreed but wut smotz said on the other forum made since