I have a daughter who dosen't live with me. And being single and dating myself "maybe" I can shed a little light on the subject. Personally I do not bother bringing up the fact that I have a child until I feel that the relationship warrants doing so. After all it is a difficult subject to talk about to say the least, especially with someone that you don't know very well. And I myself would rather not open that "can of worms" until I know that the relationship is going somewhere,and is not going to be just another fling. So maybe he has discovered that he has REAL feelings for you and he would like to take the relationship to the next level. I Know that your situation may differ from my own, but all I'm saying is don't judge him too harshly based on this alone. And try to look at it from his point of view, you may be suprised at what you discover. Also I have to wonder if you are being honest with him aswell. Have you told him that you are talking to other men, or are you "withholding" things from him too. Most of the time people (myself included) are guilty of judging others when we should really be taking a good look in the mirror at ourselves. I hope this maybe helped you in some way, or if nothing else it gave you another view of your situation. Good luck and God speed.
