Did I do the wrong thing? Worried sick

[Urca]

Ive mentioned the fwb dude on here several times. well over the last few months he blows me off ALOT. and im sick of it, have talked to him about it several times, nothing worked. Anywho I also realized I was being kind of needy, and I only send him one text a day, if he doesnt reply I dont try again until the next day. But Ive gotten sick of waiting.

so... I deleted his email, his picture, his phone number, etc... In the hopes that if he really wanted to talk to me he'd make an effort, then i'd have his number back.

but im super nervous and second guessing myself, except for now I cant go back and undo what I did.

gah am I stupid for doing this? All this shit is so confusing, and I am just tired of being ignored.

 

[ganjames]

 

[cannabineer]

I for one applaud your courage, Urca. cn

<edit> I see you've already been given the bird.

 

[beardo]

I thought you were the one blowing him off?

 

[medicalmaryjane]

you totally did the right thing. one text a day is annoying if the person is trying to lose you.

ive done that many times and usually the people call you back. who really cares if they don't? i never cared. ive had people call me months later with regrets and i tell them to fuck off. funny when the tables turn.

sucks to suck & then get the boot. i hope u got some satisfacton

 

[ganjames]

I see you've already been given the bird.

 

[olylifter420]

I did that a few times before, i did make it through dilemma. If they want or care about you they will contact you back.

Fuck it and forget about it, it will come when you least expect it.

 

[cannabineer]

... starring Trippi Hedstash ... cn

 

[Hepheastus420]

For fucks sake urca.... Smoke some weed listen to music and shut up, .

 

[Urca]

its just so hard because I do care alot and there's times he shows me that he cares, but being blown off and ignored for 4-5 days at a time then getting a single text then blown off again really hurts. I mean, i try so hard to be the right kind of girl, I want to have some effort on his part too

 

[Urca]

For fucks sake urca.... Smoke some weed listen to music and shut up, .

why so mean? im sitting in tears over here

 

[beardo]

He sounds pretty demanding, 4-5 times a day?
Yeah after awhile it hurts

 

[ganjames]

 

[kmksrh21]

He's obviously bangin' other chicks...

1 text every 4 or 5 days? C'mon...

Good riddins' I say...

 

[Hepheastus420]

why so mean? im sitting in tears over here

Exactly why you need to smoke some weed and listen to chill music, . Fuck that dude, there's plenty more fish in the sea urca.

 

[cannabineer]

its just so hard because I do care alot and there's times he shows me that he cares, but being blown off and ignored for 4-5 days at a time then getting a single text then blown off again really hurts. I mean, i try so hard to be the right kind of girl, I want to have some effort on his part too

That is the part that cannot be compelled. When you find someone who gives as good as he gets (I'm speaking of consideration, not merely monkeybumpin) it's a gift. cn

 

[april]

Urca u clearly don't get what a FWB truly is Ur going all girlfriend on him by texting daily, he is suppose to be able 2 text u at 2 am for a random booty call, ur not suppose to be crying over him, damn girl im sorry if ur sad but what has he done wrong if he is only a FWB

 

[Urca]

he says im the only chick he's been with sexually since we started up back on may first... idk i trust him, i just hate feeling like im not important to him until Im actually spending time with him.

 

[PeyoteReligion]

Jesus. Isn't this more for Facebook? Or maybe a razor blade...

 

[olylifter420]

Thats just it, you try too hard.

treat others the way they treat you.

its just so hard because I do care alot and there's times he shows me that he cares, but being blown off and ignored for 4-5 days at a time then getting a single text then blown off again really hurts. I mean, i try so hard to be the right kind of girl, I want to have some effort on his part too