i feel like an ass

i just wanted to shear something with you guys to feel little bit better:
one woman made me feel like an ass for no reason. i parked my car near a gates and i bothered a truck to get out so i sat back in a car and started backing up. than one lady knocked on my window and asked to open it so i did. she looked desperate and asked could i give her ~25cents. she didnt look like a bum or drinker and i responded "in a moment" cause i still had to back up my car - the other driver were waiting for me. so she missunderstud me - looked at me angry with tears in her eyes and ran away. (i had in my pocket about 4 dollars that i was ready to give to her. not always but mostly im giving some money to poor people on street begging).

and i dont know why but now i feel like and ass for all evening..

ill will get fucking stoned to night thats for sure!

why do you feel bad?? cus she ran away?? cus you wanted to help and couldnt?? youre intentions seemed good..

you did nothing wrong---smoke two bowls---you are absolved of your sins

ive been in similar situations and sometimes you need to realize people are people and helping someone is a 2way effort, you can only help someone so much they need to want the help....

well maybe she couldn't speak well, (not enough scholl) hehe

im mean... sorry

but yeah it aint your fault son, she left before you could help

intentions are all that matter. You were going to help her out, but she couldn't be patient. Just think alot of people wouldn't have even rolled down the window.

sounds like she had alotta pride---something bad happened

pride? patience? nah.. in my language "in a moment"; "wait a minute" sometimes can sound like "yeah, whatever" or smth, so i think she misunderstood me and thats why she ran away.. thats the reason why i feel like an ass. its like someone being mad at you about things you didnt done .. you know - you dont have to worry about anything but you still feel bit crappy?

what were you gonna do? You can't beat yourself up over someone else interpretation. It would be different if you were standing there texting someone, but you were trying to maneuver your car. Don't feel bad about it, it was out of your control.

blackfirescorpio05 asked:


A man was walking down the street was accosted by a particularly
dirty
and shabby-looking homeless man who asked him for a couple of
dollars
for dinner.
The man took out his wallet, extracted ten dollars and asked, If I
give you this money, will you buy some beer with it instead of
dinner?
No, I had to stop drinking years ago, the homeless man replied.
Will you use it to go fishing instead of buying food? the man
asked.
No, I don’t waste time fishing, the homeless man said. I need to
spend all my time trying to stay alive.
Will you spend this on greens fees at a golf course instead of
food?
the man asked.
Are you NUTS! replied the homeless man. I haven’t played golf in
20
years!
Will you spend the money on a woman in the red light district
instead
of food? the man asked.
What disease would I get for ten lousy bucks? exclaimed the
homeless
man.
Well, said the man, I’m not going to give you the money. Instead,
I’m going to take you home for a terrific dinner cooked by my wife.
The homeless man was astounded. Won’t your wife be furious with you
for doing that? I know I’m dirty, and I probably smell pretty
disgusting. The man replied, That’s okay. It’s important for her to see what a
man
looks like after he has given up beer, fishing, golf, and ***.