its been growing about 2 months with no help and its stalk is skinny and its looking like its not gonna wield to much if its a female. how can i get a thicker stalk
Indoor? A fan that stirs the plants slightly is good. You don't want to blow them over, just a little "shake" for the "bake". You can also try rotations. I do this with mine. Every 12 hours (in my 24/0 cycle) I spin the pots 180 degrees. This makes the tops bend back and forth to face the light like they would follow the sun.