What are your ppms!!!!!!!
You're working blind. Especially in coir.
I run 100% coir. I hand water/feed once in the morning, and once in the afternoon, a few hours before lights out. Oxygen should not be a problem at all.
I feed or water, until 15-20% runoff.
I'm currently feeding 900 ppm of nutrient. Mine's a 5.3.9. Third week of bloom.
900 ppm, works out about 24mL per 9L of my water. I use tap water, less than 200ppm. I don't get a read with my truncheon.
Problem with coir is, you don't know how much it's leeching, without a ppm meter.
It could be leeching sodium or potassium, and you have no idea.
Salt will make a plant look extra thirsty. Even when the coir is saturated. It will also wilt like you have rot. Leaf tips will do all sorts of crazy too.
Does your plant feel dry? Kind of like sandpaper?