JohnnyDAgrower
Active Member

I just want opinions....what would you do?
She says its caused problems in past relationships and doesn't wanna take a chance on that happening again.
I like that plan. She said it caused problems in past relationships. But the past is not always a predictor of everything. So if she catches you smoking/high one day down the road, it won't matter. She will realize she is happy to be with you, whether or not you get high sometimes. So long as you make her happy.
When me and my fiancee first started dating in college, I was still dealing. No way she would have given me a chance if she even knew I smoked weed, much less dealt. But as we progressed as a couple, she realized that it didn't matter that I smoked, we make each other happy. And now, she smokes more than I do...good times
So whats happenin people! I've got a little problem. Chicks giving me a ultimatum. Her or the herb?
I just want opinions....what would you do?
listen to dis poster they know what they are talking about. + if you gave up the bud and you guy's still didnt work out your gonna fell like a dumbass + if she's making you give this up its just the first thing on a LONG list of ish she'll want you to change about yourself. dont do it man keep on tokingsomeone that loves you, loves you for who you are. if the person you are smokes weed, then she should love you for it. a true lover will not ask/make you try and change yourself for them, because when you change, you are no longer the person that they fell in love with... and that doesnt apply to just weed either.