What's your opinion on spanking kids?

[Urca]

I don't know if you were so I asked. I didn't realize that you didn't know either. That's a sure sign that you were.

lol i wasnt abused... read back a few pages. yeah, maybe i got my ass beat real good over my lifetime, but never been abused.

 

[gfreeman]

....................................................kinda like the wife whos like" i know my husband gave me black eye, but the beer i brought him was kinda warm....."

 

[Kodank Moment]

....................................................kinda like the wife whos like" i know my husband gave me black eye, but the beer i brought him was kinda warm....."

I'd hit a bitch for that. Damn. Warm beer? Come on slut this isn't Africa. We have refrigerators.

 

[gfreeman]

lmao. this isnt africa..........

 

[Urca]

....................................................kinda like the wife whos like" i know my husband gave me black eye, but the beer i brought him was kinda warm....."

lol are you serious? my mom does alot for me, so does my dad, and they care about me. all that shit i said happened to me wasnt an all the time thing, just happened. and yeah my mom may slap me and hit me now, but that happens like what, once every month or so? i bring it on myself with my mouth, seriously, you have no clue until you walk in my shoes. its not abuse

 

[Kodank Moment]

lol are you serious? my mom does alot for me, so does my dad, and they care about me. all that shit i said happened to me wasnt an all the time thing, just happened. and yeah my mom may slap me and hit me now, but that happens like what, once every month or so? i bring it on myself with my mouth, seriously, you have no clue until you walk in my shoes. its not abuse

Ah all makes sense now. You still live with mommy...

 

[Urca]

lol yes i do, and so does my older sister.

 

[Kodank Moment]

lol yes i do, and so does my older sister.

I dunno if it's more sad she is older or that YOU BOTH still can't get your shit together enough to move out. Or just pure laziness.

 

[gfreeman]

lol are you serious? my mom does alot for me, so does my dad, and they care about me. all that shit i said happened to me wasnt an all the time thing, just happened. and yeah my mom may slap me and hit me now, but that happens like what, once every month or so? i bring it on myself with my mouth, seriously, you have no clue until you walk in my shoes. its not abuse

lol. like i said, "no officer it wasnt abuse! his beer was warm and sometimes i kno i can be mouthy when im raggin. its totally not his fault...." ok whatever say what you want. say its not abuse, say you like it, or want it, or need it. whatever erica. Its is your life after all and you are a grown woman, sorta, anyway your old enough to leave if you want, mature and financiallly stable, maybe not, but still, if you find it ok, than so be it. its your life after all, say what you want. a rose is a rose is a rose. even if you insist its a fucking daffodile.

 

[Urca]

why? i just graduated high school and just started college. our mom lets us live here if we're either in school or working, preferrably both, but i cant find a job. if we didnt go to school or work we'd be kicked out

 

[gfreeman]

why? i just graduated high school and just started college. our mom lets us live here if we're either in school or working, preferrably both, but i cant find a job. if we didnt go to school or work we'd be kicked out

you cant find a job because you dont want to. thier are plenty of them out there, especially for fresh out of high school kids. And no matter what you tell yourself, if you dont go out there and get a job now, when you graduate and have whatever diploma, its not going to help you land a job, those skills are acquired from actually job hunting. only then itll be years down the line and urca still lives at home depending upon the abusive parents because she has no job or boyfriend to support her. very tragic.

 

[gfreeman]

perhaps if erica spent as much time job searching as she did commenting on RIU, shed actually have a check, and perhaps the balls to tell her parents...como se dice...hasta la vista.

 

[Urca]

im looking for a job now, but im really getting tired of you judging me. my parents arent abusive. leave it alone. seriously, who are you to judge? i dont even dislike my parents, shit i love them to death.

 

[MrStickyScissors]

I cant get a job for shit. I have 1 strike on my record and a bunch of other shit back before I had kids I did two years in state prison and about half my juvinile life in juvinile hall. only jobs I can get are fast food and it where i live those are snached up.I tryed hella hard to get a job for a year and got hired at one place (target) 2 weeks into the job they firred me because of my bak ground check. I see these kids today 18 19 years old highschool diploma and no record complaning about how they cant get a job. shit give me a clean record a DL and I will do sumthing right now

 

[gfreeman]

im looking for a job now, but im really getting tired of you judging me. my parents arent abusive. leave it alone.

no one would judge you sweetie if you didnt put it out there. no offense im not trying to bash you, this is truth. you put yourself out there for us to see, and as human nature we judge. say what you want but everyone fucking does it. only im honest, ill tell you how i feel to your face. or in this case, type it out for you to read. you continuosly put yourself into it, so inturn, you do it to yourself. just sayin

 

[The Cryptkeeper]

im looking for a job now, but im really getting tired of you judging me. my parents arent abusive. leave it alone. seriously, who are you to judge? i dont even dislike my parents, shit i love them to death.

How many times now has April told you you need to stop doing what you're doing right now?

 

[canuckgrow]

Beating your kids does nothing but teach them to beat their kids. 3 kids and I've never spanked any of them....the wost was my daughter***Sigh**** she needed her hand slappped a few times. My youngest has never experienced any sort of violence at home and he is a great kid...well adjusted,,,Happy,,,good in school and has so many friends. It takes work and consistancy which most people hate or lack the skills to acccomplish it. My step father beat us all when we were younger and I swore I would never make my kids feel like I did after a beating.

 

[Urca]

and what is that? defend myself?

 

[gfreeman]

hmm. es bien chiflada esta...

 

[The Cryptkeeper]

and what is that? defend myself?

Feed your need for attention? Perhaps?