Okay, first off rockwool dry to the touch is not what you want. The rockwool cube centered in the hydroton should be moist to the touch but not soaking. What's your fluid delivery method to the net pot bottoms? If you're using sprayers, you gotta wet it every 15minutes or so.
Also, the water tempeature cannot be gauged by the air thermometer next to the tub! If it's 75f in the air around your tub, I would bet that your water is warmer. How? How? How can the water be warmer than the air? So many can't believe that. But it is. Get you water cool. All your problems will fall in line. Keeping the water cool is priority number one. If your water isn't cool, the most expensive lights and nutes won't help you at all.