You summed it up accurately, but a true weed nerd relishes the pheno hunt and expects crap phenos and male plants. A true weed nerd wouldn't want to grow a clone from a known and tested phenotype, with the exception of elite clone only genetics. I consider myself to be a weed nerd and I live to pop expensive poly hybrid seeds and savor throwing away 90% of the resulting progeny. If you aren't going into it expecting to throw away 90% of the plants from the seeds you pop you're going to be joining the boycott cry-wagon. You're never going to get elite genetics crying while you grow the same lame phenos that get passed around this state like a small town bar skank. By the time you do get them all the weed nerds will be gushing over something new.
I'm willing to bet that most of the known and tested phenos going around in this state were selected from less than 20 original seeds. My friend's Apollo he grew and selected from 10 seeds in the early days of the program is all over the state being called at least 3 different things but it's unmistakable. Based on further observation of the people I know I'm willing to bet that most of the seeds started aren't original breeder packs but rather bag seed they got from people's mistakes. Everybody needs to stop being so cheap and man up and crack some beans. No way in hell I'm swapping my best clone from an elite poly hybrid pedigree for the local hermaphrodite special or anything that starts with "Blue" or "Purple." The more junk the goes around the more closely held good cuts will be.
What we do in my circle is pop as many seeds as we can and take clones before going into flower. Those clones serve as mother plants. The garbage phenos are unceremoniously discarded and the mother plant destroyed. The mediocre cuts get named whatever the seeds were called and the mother is given away to begin its trip around the state. The best cut out of 10 gets shared between 2 or 3 people and maybe some F2s get made for future breeding projects. The last run of 50 seeds and probably $700 yielded 2 or 3 top quality cuts and a dozen mediocre phenos we gave away that are still better than the clones we see passed around. I've smoked tightly held cuts from outside of my circle that were phenomenal. Specifically Grape Ape x Fruit of the Gods years back out of the Flint area and Permadiesel from the west side of the state around the same time. Ask about a cut and all you get is a sly grin and a quick change of subject.
You said it best, lots of cheap fools expect to get what they see on the box from a 5 pack. I wonder if the same people that complain about the high cost of seeds and the unpredictable nature of F1 poly hybrids are the same people that spend $1200 per cycle to run the full line up of whatever nutrient company they religiously purchase from? I only grow for personal med use and I have no qualms spending $400-500 per year on seeds. If you do you seriously need to re-evaluate what you hope to accomplish in your gardening hobby/career.