I keep getting told that I'm rare and/or mental. I check out other chicks with my bf, laugh when he flirts with them, and even let him fuck another chick last week in our house coz I could tell he really wanted to. I totally trust him, he knows where he sleeps, and he doesn't do anything to make me uncomfortable, which is why I'm so cool with it.
I've never said no to sex, try to make it interesting (he hasn't needed the highlight reel since we've been together). I also keep house, raise our son, get on with his family and friends, and encourage him to get out of the house to play sport or go to the bar for important social occasions like work parties. I don't nag, I don't hint, I don't guilt trip, I just say or ask straight out and accept if the answer is no or later. We don't fight, just communicate, and if it's resolved I forget it ever even happened.
Is there anyone else who does this or am I (as he believes) absolutely rare and many men won't see one in their lifetime? Surely someone else must have a clue? To me this is all common sense stuff.
