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Total Head

Total Head

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Urca said:
why isnt who i am good enough? especially when i treat guys really good.
plus id have to lose about 130 to be good enough for a guy
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i'm going to be blunt here because i can't read this nonsense any more.

who you are is a DOORMAT. you need to understand there is nothing attractive about a "please please don't dump me i'll buy you new clothes" attitude.

you have this idea that you need to do something special to keep a man because of how you look, when in reality all you need to do is stop presenting yourself as defective goods, and stop playing the part of defective goods. defective goods attract bargain shoppers, not connoisseurs.

i've seen your picture, and truthfully, i'd hit that, but not after 25 minutes of "omg i'm so gross" talk. when you act all "poor me" you need to understand that you put a man in a position of NEVER being able satisfy you emotionally, and then HE will feel like a failure. it's hard to get close to someone who has a wall up.

there are people who are way fatter than you who are butt ugly who have less trouble finding happiness than you. stop blaming how you look and try to understand how the way you present yourself relates to how people perceive you and treat you, and what type of people this attitude will attract. stop trying to make up for being fat and just be you as-is. take the pressure off for hell's sake.
 
Urca

Urca

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i never tell them i feel this way about myself though. I just try to be pleasent and pleasing but i guess that comes off wrong. At least I dont tell them what I think about myself or about how gross i think i am
 
Jimmyjonestoo

Jimmyjonestoo

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Total Head said:
i'm going to be blunt here because i can't read this nonsense any more.

who you are is a DOORMAT. you need to understand there is nothing attractive about a "please please don't dump me i'll buy you new clothes" attitude.

you have this idea that you need to do something special to keep a man because of how you look, when in reality all you need to do is stop presenting yourself as defective goods, and stop playing the part of defective goods. defective goods attract bargain shoppers, not connoisseurs.

i've seen your picture, and truthfully, i'd hit that, but not after 25 minutes of "omg i'm so gross" talk. when you act all "poor me" you need to understand that you put a man in a position of NEVER being able satisfy you emotionally, and then HE will feel like a failure. it's hard to get close to someone who has a wall up.

there are people who are way fatter than you who are butt ugly who have less trouble finding happiness than you. stop blaming how you look and try to understand how the way you present yourself relates to how people perceive you and treat you, and what type of people this attitude will attract. stop trying to make up for being fat and just be you as-is. take the pressure off for hell's sake.
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Said it perfectly.
 
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patrickkawi37

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if your not happy with yourself then do something about it. no guy wants a girl whos confidence is in the shitter, its just too much work and emotional baggage to deal with. you say oh im just too lazy to go to the gym or go on a diet.. but your not too lazy to post about how much your life sucks and how much guys hate you on the internet and spend all day reading it. how is that going to change anything if you sit around crying eating cheetos? if you dont like your life, change it and stop crying about it. sorry to be so harsh.. but seriously. eating right and proper exercise will not only help you turn your body into the stereotypical hot that you want.. but it will help you gain control of your mind so you can put your life where you want it to go instead of in the couch and roll it up.

your 19 so i know you think you know everything.. but your going to grow up alot in the next 5 years and your going to change alot of the ways you think.. getting in a relationship at your age now is just silly because you will most likely be a completely different person and not just a know it all teenager ina few year. keep your virginity, work on your self confidence, and enjoy life because its too short to waste it hating yourself.
 
Metasynth

Metasynth

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patrickkawi37 said:
your 19 so i know you think you know everything.. but your going to grow up alot in the next 5 years and your going to change alot of the ways you think.. getting in a relationship at your age now is just silly because you will most likely be a completely different person and not just a know it all teenager ina few year. keep your virginity, work on your self confidence, and enjoy life because its too short to waste it hating yourself.
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+1

Ten characters.
 
shrxhky420

shrxhky420

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Urca said:
i never tell them i feel this way about myself though. I just try to be pleasent and pleasing but i guess that comes off wrong. At least I dont tell them what I think about myself or about how gross i think i am
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you don't have to... it'll show in the way you interact with ppl... confidence can't be faked!!! stop being such a boohoo and do something other than bitch and moan... if your online persona is anything like you are in real life... good luck to you because you're gonna need it. stay high
 
Metasynth

Metasynth

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I say auction off your virginity, and try to get at least 50k for it. You'd be surprised at what some rich weird old dude would pay to pop a cherry. If you're lucky, maybe you could marry him and he'll croak after a few years, and you'll never have to work again.
 
blazinkill504

blazinkill504

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patrickkawi37 said:
if your not happy with yourself then do something about it. no guy wants a girl whos confidence is in the shitter, its just too much work and emotional baggage to deal with. you say oh im just too lazy to go to the gym or go on a diet.. but your not too lazy to post about how much your life sucks and how much guys hate you on the internet and spend all day reading it. how is that going to change anything if you sit around crying eating cheetos? if you dont like your life, change it and stop crying about it. sorry to be so harsh.. but seriously. eating right and proper exercise will not only help you turn your body into the stereotypical hot that you want.. but it will help you gain control of your mind so you can put your life where you want it to go instead of in the couch and roll it up.

your 19 so i know you think you know everything.. but your going to grow up alot in the next 5 years and your going to change alot of the ways you think.. getting in a relationship at your age now is just silly because you will most likely be a completely different person and not just a know it all teenager ina few year. keep your virginity, work on your self confidence, and enjoy life because its too short to waste it hating yourself.
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BINGO! trust me you start to eat right an exercise an you'll start forgettin about dudes cause you'll be soo wrapped up in your own mental/physical health once you start to feel the change in yourself. then you'll actually start to notice ppl takin notice of you because you're just givin that positive vibe off. i have always given a respected the heavier women at the gym that are sweatin an bustin their ass an walkin out slow as hell cause they're tired an sore than any of the skinny bitches that are puttin on a show for the dudes. it seems you have a sweet personality just a shitty state of mind about yourself. trust me when i say diet/exercise can help.

i was at the opposite spectrum of this i was always suuper skinny an weak an was always depressed about that shit thinkin anyone could fuck over me if they wanted to. till i said ima do somethin about it an its been all positive since then. an like i said it sucked to hell an back when i first started, but once you start to feel that change cause you feel it before you see any physical difference it makes you hungry to keep goin an that shows off to other ppl. since i been back gainin weight an exercisin my lil bro has been seein this an decided to start doin it as well. im tellin you it'll be the best thing for you right now esp since you're young an you can make it stick in your life.
 
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