buds falling off! time to harvest??

Are you for real?

If you have mites the bud should be fine. Far as budworms, if that's all the damage they did you should be good.

i havent seen any budworms from my inspections. as for the mites, they were all over the undersides of the fan leaves of one of the branches and a few misc mites on the nugs themselves, along with a few dead ants i saw lol. guess they got too faded off the trichs. so i chopped off the upper portion of the cola and i hope that doesnt stress the plant.

What did that solve?

not sure yet, weather here sucks its cloudy and might rain so i dont know if i should cut early or wait it out for sunny weather.