Don't date single moms

curious2garden

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Greatest act of courage I ever saw was a buddy came home to his friend's wife (who he didn't like), courted and, eventually, married her and raised those kids cause he promised his friend he'd take care of them.
 

Grojak

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I do totally agree with this guy he's pretty fucking spot on, however:

I do know the exception to this rule, but only 1 my friend is an amazing woman that I have a ton of respect and admiration for and she's good looking too. Why am I not with her, 3 kids lol.

And seriously do you want to put up with someone else's kids? I don't have kids for a reason but as a dumbass 22 year old dated and lived with a girl with a kid.. thank you no thanks!! If I don't have a kid of my own by 35 why the fuck would I want someone else's problem? There a plenty of single, horny, fun and available women ready and willing to hang out with a simple call, no babysitters needed, no tag along required.
 

gioua

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Greatest act of courage I ever saw was a buddy came home to his friend's wife (who he didn't like), courted and, eventually, married her and raised those kids cause he promised his friend he'd take care of them.
This was a more common practice esp during the civil war..but it was Brothers marrying their dead brothers wives to care for the kids...
 

420God

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Greatest act of courage I ever saw was a buddy came home to his friend's wife (who he didn't like), courted and, eventually, married her and raised those kids cause he promised his friend he'd take care of them.
I know a chick that has 3 kids from 3 different fathers all in the military, never in a relationship with any of them but collects a check from them all.

Has even told her friends she did that to increase chances of getting life insurance if they were to be killed in action.

There are some really fucked up people out there.
 

bongbrain

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im surprised single moms aren't bitching at this right now. i stay long gone away from them. i hate single moms because they want to run every ones life and they thing they know everything because they are raising kids so that gives them a direction of authority. reasons to stay away from single mom? she has a kid that's good enough. when you date single moms, now you have to think about how the child gets in the way and think about how to work around her and her kid. do you really want to hear kids all the time while you try to relax. i watch all the single parents around this town try to make ends meet and bitch about life. i think well fuck you should have a-never fucked B- used a condom C- used the pill. i look at them and am o so happy i made sure this never happened. life is way better without kids. can we say FREEDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

minnesmoker

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....................FEAR NO MAN...... TRUST NO HOE............ don't put ur fait n love n time into something that bleeds for a week yet doesn't die.....

I got respect for you, admitting yer on the DL like that, couldn't be the easiest thing to do, I'd imagine -- coming out in a thread about single mom's.
 

kinetic

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I got respect for you, admitting yer on the DL like that, couldn't be the easiest thing to do, I'd imagine -- coming out in a thread about single mom's.
ya know, he has posted about hanging out in parks alot before. I guess it makes sese now!
 

anzohaze

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Yes I have a child with a crazy bitch and I had to leave her. We broke up 2.5 years ago and she has been w 30 guys since. She is hot but she has a nasty attitude and thinks shes the shit. Most young single moms are meant to hit it and forget it. Theres 1 in 100, 000 thatd prpb decent
 

minnesmoker

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I think there's some misunderstanding.

Single mother implies that a woman is providing motherly love and affection toward her child, without spousal support, emotionally or physically.

Most of what people are referring to sound more like bitches with baggage. You can tell, because of how they refer to their kids, and how they treat them. It becomes a bit more obvious when you look at the time, and your surroundings, and realize it's 12 minutes to close, on a Tuesday night at a club.

And, I can understand leaving a crazy bitch because she's crazy and cares more about herself and her wants than her family and the family's needs. How can one call himself a man though, when they leave that, but leave the child behind -- knowing the circus that's going to follow? Leaving your own child in that? Sounds like an absent single dad that's no better than the woman he left.
 

kinetic

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Just off the top of my head I know four single moms that dispute the misogynistic view of the op and the video. One is a Professor, one is a nurse, one is a nursing manager, the other owns her own Salon. All make their own money, 3 are very good looking.
 

Grojak

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Here's a "No Shit, Sherlock" article for ya!!!

http://atlanta.cbslocal.com/2014/01/14/study-couples-without-children-have-happier-marriages/


ATLANTA (CBS Atlanta) – Childless couples have happier marriages, says a new study.
Researchers at the Open University in the United Kingdom interviewed and surveyed over 5,000 people and found that men and women without children are more satisfied with their relationships; they are also more likely to feel valued by their partner. The participants included people of all ages, statuses, and sexual orientation.
“Saying ‘thank you’ and giving compliments emerged as one of the most important factor in keeping a relationship healthy across all groups,” the researchers noted in the study.
Researchers also found that women without children were the least happy with life overall, however they did find that mothers were happier than any other group.
The researchers were also able to determine that people who had been in a long-term relationship before were more likely to know how to sustain their next one.
“This is a shift away from the idea that they are just failed relationships to be put in a cupboard and forgotten about,” Dr. Jacqui Gabb, a senior lecturer in social policy at the Open University and lead author on the study told the Daily Telegraph. “It shows they have learnt something through them, therefore it can be an enriching experience.”
The one big difference researchers found between men and women were that mothers more twice as likely to say their children are the most important person in their lives while fathers said it was their partner.
 

theexpress

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Married a "Single Mom" with 2 kids back in 95... 18 years later still 100% happy


for each Mom that is single there is a Dad who walked away.. or left that mom and kids.. so.. where is the thread about the dead beat Dads and not dating them?
I haven't had a father since 91... will u be my father? we can both not smile in the family pix togather and just look mean has shit... we could go get high and go fishing.. go get high and go camping... we can go get high first then go get high again... what you say paaaaaw? :p
 

Sunbiz1

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I haven't had a father since 91... will u be my father? we can both not smile in the family pix togather and just look mean has shit... we could go get high and go fishing.. go get high and go camping... we can go get high first then go get high again... what you say paaaaaw? :p
LOL...

[video=youtube;Lli9ABUFZCU]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lli9ABUFZCU[/video]
 

theexpress

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So how's your rehabilitation going there mr. express? lol
im getting better at controlling my anger I think.. just the other day some Mexican almost smashed into my ass when I was driving to the bar.... then this paisa ass nigga gonna shine his brights and honks his horn like the shit is my fault.... I keep one those lil white sox bats under my seat.... I was gonna jump out on him and fuck his shit up on north ave. but I saw he was with his kids so I let it slide.... im getting better....
 

Padawanbater2

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All of these points were addressed in the clip

So your single moms with good jobs who are loving parents do not apply
 

theexpress

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I got respect for you, admitting yer on the DL like that, couldn't be the easiest thing to do, I'd imagine -- coming out in a thread about single mom's.
hahaha I like how you did that there.... slick slow burn..... I bow down I don't want it with you today.... your too on point... {fades back into the cut}
 
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