um private message her, no need to post on her wall unless your trying to start shit, or make other guys jealous. And really if that's the case maybe it's the "type" of chick your picking up that's wrong for you. Try finding a chick that does require facebook friendship, here a few tips coming from a girl.
If her profile pic is her half naked or making "duck face" don't accept!!
Check out her wall, if half a dozen guys are calling her sexy or "hawt" lol again dont be a tool move on!
Profile pics really show u who a person is, don't believe me check some out!!!
also alot or girls can't understand that classy is not trashy!!!
How many "friends" does she have- really anything over 300 explains alot- (really i know alot of people and have a large family and still not over 300)
And look at her pics, are they all bar pics or family and friend pics- if u decide to chase a whore, don't be surprised when she acts like one!!!
I consider myself lucky to have a pretty face, nice body, i've never had issues picking up guys, but i've never acted like these young skanks do.
Men like natural beauty, i have long brown hair, makeup is something i wear for special events, not everyday. If women learned to take care of themselves insead of faking it out they would have nice soft hair and clear skin!! My man likes being able to run his fingers through my hair, and kiss my forehead without tasting or wearing my "face".
And really guys don't u ever question whats under all that makeup??? Sorry but i'm sooo sick of girls thinking they need to look like paris hilton or some freak off jersey shore. I bake cakes, make quilts, cook, clean, watch tv, u know things women did before some felt they need to grow balls, girls are suppose to be soft, smell good, and be the boss all while your man thinks he is. LOL sorry for the rant by i just sampled some of my shit, wow it's good.....