Gf or garden

Doesn't matter what you love.

This is me, and I want to grow, this is my passion in life. If people around me can't get behind that and enable me to follow my passions, either they leave or I will leave them behind.

Any day, any time, In a heartbeat!

zeus2025 said:

The current gf doesn't like the garden and says it has to go or she goes. Opinions please!

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Also, your first mistake was letting your gf in on your project. Now even if you pick the garden, GF gets upset how you dumped her cos of a plant (how silly of her) gets mad....and you're compromised.

Good luck!

my husband gets kind of mad at me if I spend too long in the tents among the plants...but as long as he isn't being neglected he seems to be alright with it.

TO THE CURB! Especially if your legal lots of worse things then weed crack, dope,oxys etc...

I think you just have to really think about which one you want more...and do you want a gf that would ask you stop doing something you really like...

out of sight out of mind tell your gf you stopped and go stealth on her ass!

pphaze said:

out of sight out of mind tell your gf you stopped and go stealth on her ass!

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Disagree here. If she's ur GF, why degrade yourself to having to hide things from her so you can follow your hobbies?

They either accept it or they bite the CUUUUUUURB!!!!!

pick the girl. if you break up.....she'll blab about your grow.

GunRunner said:

Disagree here. If she's ur GF, why degrade yourself to having to hide things from her so you can follow your hobbies?

They either accept it or they bite the CUUUUUUURB!!!!!

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Very true statement but at the same time the man has to protect his state of mind from being parinoid, and by him choosing his plants over her
of course hes due to get busted so in this situation you just gotta do what ya gotta do i supose.

zeus2025 said:

At first she was seemingly ok with it since I'm a caregiver and it's legit.

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seems like her blabbing about it isn't that much of an issue.
The plants man!! The plants!!! Sacrifice 1 female to save the rest!!!

use her as fertilizer

DQ Blizzard said:

Been there done that.... dumped the GF was busted 2 weeks after she moved out, did she and would yours rat you out? Don't find out!!!

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Before you let them walk away let them know there 'ass' is insurance if anything happens to the grow room etc.. and people will know about her etc.

if she gets paranoid enough she wont talk.. theres a way of dealing with rats bro.

if you guys part ways, her friends and family,maybe yours if shes knows them,will be asking her

"what happen with you and zuecy"

she replies "he loved his stupid marijuana plants more then me"

"he was growing like a million plants"

then everyone knows.

you get random texts from people you know asking about your garden and "where the bud at" type shit lmao. expecting it for free or "hook me up"

mak said:

if you guys part ways, her friends and family,maybe yours if shes knows them,will be asking her

"what happen with you and zuecy"

she replies "he loved his stupid marijuana plants more then me"

"he was growing like a million plants"

then everyone knows.

you get random texts from people you know asking about your garden and "where the bud at" type shit lmao. expecting it for free or "hook me up"

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Which is why he should..

PJ Diaz said:

..give her the boot, but you need to do it carefully. I would suggest that you tell her that you stop growing for like a month, then have the "I think we should see other people" talk or whatever, and let her dump you. Then wait another month and start the grow back up again. It's the safest plan..

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although it does make it a harder decision if she is as fine as you said she is,how does she look without make-up lol..

how does she look to you when you see her ugly side?
i.e her trying to control you saying its her or the garden.

next its her movie,her friends,her family's on holidays,her baby.
if you go along with it..

where are you going to be when its her decision to leave you out of the blue,for her selfish reasons?

lost of time,by this time she would have robbed you of friends,family(always be there for you but you lost time/moments with them you cant get back),MONEYx100,Meds,robbed of your passion to grow.

btw your not asking her to mary you,but rather move in together..

when you could meet an awesome girl who loves to medicate as much as you,and be happier. she could get a rec and have her own little crop next to yours etc

not to mention you will be driving a minivan instead of the car you really want..

or am i getting ahead of myself?

Mmmmm mini vans....
I want a green one haha.

But it's lookin like he's gonna be a mini van owner pretty soon by the amount of time he's taking to give her the boot. I don't think it's gonna happen. He's prolly hacking down his babies as we speak.... Poor poor babies...

SirShmokeAlot225 said:

Mmmmm mini vans....
I want a green one haha.

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even worse..a VW buggy with a hawaii bobble head type thing on the dash,and a flower on the hood lol

mak said:

even worse..a VW buggy with a hawaii bobble head type thing on the dash,and a flower on the hood lol

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Omg. Flo bobble head! I can totally see it now.