how would you feel if your buddy got busted for having some coke in the car & claimed it was yours & you went to jail for it? anything growing in her house is her problem & she will get charged w/ it.
depending on your state & the cop involved,they may weigh the plants w/ rootball & dirt attached at the scene.this happenned to my uncle many yrs ago. 2 plants weighed in at 6 lbs, felony charges and a big lawyer bill along w/ a night in jail.at court the weight dropped to a few grams of premature bud and charges dropped but that was after a few months of sweating & a few grand to a lawyer. would you want to do that to your mother?
I lived w/ my parents till mid 20s and would not even bring more than an oz into their house(in my state,over an oz became a felony)
I have 2 adult children,20 & 22, both started getting high around 16. both were told that I didnt condone it at that age but I could be blind & dumb so I would not notice the room full of potsmoke as long as they were discreate. after graduating,I started smoking w/ them & giving them bags. when I got into an arguement w/ the oldest at 20(she wouldnt get a job or go to school) she threatend to call the cops on my grow. it was torn down in 15 minutes & she was out of the house within the hour.and she is still not welcome here. I would have reacted the same if I found her growing w/out my knowledge. it may sound harsh but the penalties I face for her stupidity will be as well.
do I sound like a mean prick? consider this, my 20 yr old is currently driving my classic 77 bandit TA till she can get her car back on the road & every friend she has wants to move in w/ us. the oldest had her boyfriend living here b4 she was tossed.(seperate bedrooms-sharing a bed is a privlege reserved for adults who support themselves) the terms? go to college or work& pay rent -$75 a week,$50 of it goes into a savings account for you to buy a house or for education.( btw, room & board includes some bud.)
show a little respect & keep it outside till you have your own place.