I found a bag of blow..........

april said:

I need a POF intervention, i'm addicted to dating really handsome but amazingly dumb men, I think I need to date ugly men lol

Click to expand...

robert 14617 said:

are you that shallow april or has this just been the way the cards fell . beauty is only skin deep but ugly goes all the way to the bone

Click to expand...

april said:

Not shallow, and my xrays always show such lovely bones If attractive men ask me out I find myself wanting to spend time with them, should I lie about this? If Hot women wanted to spend time with u would u say "no ur no ugly enough?" lol then I realize they lack basic communication skills lol If u had to pick between kush and brick weed which would u pick, i'm just honest, i'm not an ugly women, i'm 30, got a car ,pretty good job, and no kids so ya that's just life. Should I date men i'm not attracted to so people I don't know think I'm a good person? LOL

Click to expand...

april said:

Not shallow, and my xrays always show such lovely bones If attractive men ask me out I find myself wanting to spend time with them, should I lie about this?

Click to expand...

april said:

If Hot women wanted to spend time with u would u say "no ur no ugly enough?" lol then I realize they lack basic communication skills lol If u had to pick between kush and brick weed which would u pick, i'm just honest, i'm not an ugly women, i'm 30, got a car ,pretty good job, and no kids so ya that's just life.

Click to expand...

april said:

Should I date men i'm not attracted to so people I don't know think I'm a good person? LOL

Click to expand...

Fungus Gnat said:

How long have you had a self-destructive personality?

Click to expand...

april said:

How long have u been this hostile? LOL

Click to expand...

Carne Seca said:

This thread drips with hypocrisy. It boggles my mind. Sex is a physical activity. An enjoyable one, thank all that's holy. We are animals. One with a sex drive that is on all the time. Unlike other animals that have to "come into season" if they want a little nookie. The only other creatures that have recreational sex are Bonobos and they do that to help cement relationships in their group and relieve stress. Sex is natural and harmless (normally).

I've read thread after thread on this site, with contributions from most of the guys, about banging "bitches and sluts". By the way you all talk, you're nothing but a bunch of whoremongers and shameless sluts yourself. Then you turn around and start attacking and ridiculing a female on this site because she happens to have a healthy libido and enjoys sex. So fucking what? It's her life. She's an adult. She's not a whore or a slut or whatever your vestigial tribal taboos dictate she is. She's a healthy human being without the inhibitions of an archaic prudish culture that should have died with Queen Victoria.

I think what most of you men are afraid of is a woman with experience. That she might know a little bit more around the bedroom than you do AND she's enjoyed a much larger cock than yours.

Click to expand...

Fungus Gnat said:

I'm having fun, I personally don't have anything against you.

Click to expand...

Hepheastus420 said:

No.. If they're hot then that's a fun bonus. But you shouldn't get with them just because they're hot.. Unless you're just looking for a shallow lay.


I'd give her a chance. Not because she's hot (which is a bonus) but because she's a human and might just be a cool person. If a "ugly" girl came up to me and asked if I wanted to hang out, I'd give her a chance to.. She might just be a cool person also.

Kush and brick is a irrelevant metaphor. Using that assumes good looking people are good people, which isn't always true.. And that also assumes not so good looking people suck, which isn't always true.


You should either date people because you like them for who they are (regardless of looks) or just admit you're in the dating scene just for looks, which is shallow.

Click to expand...

tharoomman said:

From, "I found a bag of blow".......to all this?

Click to expand...

Carne Seca said:

This thread drips with hypocrisy. It boggles my mind. Sex is a physical activity. An enjoyable one, thank all that's holy. We are animals. One with a sex drive that is on all the time. Unlike other animals that have to "come into season" if they want a little nookie. The only other creatures that have recreational sex are Bonobos and they do that to help cement relationships in their group and relieve stress. Sex is natural and harmless (normally).

I've read thread after thread on this site, with contributions from most of the guys, about banging "bitches and sluts". By the way you all talk, you're nothing but a bunch of whoremongers and shameless sluts yourself. Then you turn around and start attacking and ridiculing a female on this site because she happens to have a healthy libido and enjoys sex. So fucking what? It's her life. She's an adult. She's not a whore or a slut or whatever your vestigial tribal taboos dictate she is. She's a healthy human being without the inhibitions of an archaic prudish culture that should have died with Queen Victoria.

I think what most of you men are afraid of is a woman with experience. That she might know a little bit more around the bedroom than you do AND she's enjoyed a much larger cock than yours.

Click to expand...

Hepheastus420 said:

I'm sorry if what I said came off in a bad way. Sex is a good thing.. It's a fun thing.. Especially with a hot women. All I'm saying is she shouldn't just count "ugly" guys out of the dating scene.

Click to expand...

april said:

Online dating is a combo of physical and verbal attraction, people lie, some describe who they want to be, not who they are, I chat with guys i'm attracted to, how else and I gonna find a life partner???

Click to expand...

april said:

So u date girls ur not attracted to, do u close ur eyes every time u meet a women and get to know the real her? LOL damn ur making me laugh, was that milf ugly? lol i'll just let that one go, way to easy lol

Click to expand...

april said:

People don't date each other regardless of looks, when u like someone it's because they are appealing in ur eyes, u find them sexy.

Click to expand...

april said:

Lesson of the day, luv is not blind, it's based on the laws of attraction, hmm guess u don't know "The Secret" yet

Click to expand...

Carne Seca said:

This thread drips with hypocrisy. It boggles my mind. Sex is a physical activity. An enjoyable one, thank all that's holy. We are animals. One with a sex drive that is on all the time. Unlike other animals that have to "come into season" if they want a little nookie. The only other creatures that have recreational sex are Bonobos and they do that to help cement relationships in their group and relieve stress. Sex is natural and harmless (normally).

I've read thread after thread on this site, with contributions from most of the guys, about banging "bitches and sluts". By the way you all talk, you're nothing but a bunch of whoremongers and shameless sluts yourself. Then you turn around and start attacking and ridiculing a female on this site because she happens to have a healthy libido and enjoys sex. So fucking what? It's her life. She's an adult. She's not a whore or a slut or whatever your vestigial tribal taboos dictate she is. She's a healthy human being without the inhibitions of an archaic prudish culture that should have died with Queen Victoria.

I think what most of you men are afraid of is a woman with experience. That she might know a little bit more around the bedroom than you do AND she's enjoyed a much larger cock than yours.

Click to expand...

april said:

I give any man i'm attracted to the same chance, fuck crypt flew out here didn't he enough said. I went to Cali and tried things with someone else I only ever spoke with, seriously U know nothing about the true person I am luv. Ur judging me saying not to judge men until I know them, yet u know nothing about me, irony???
I'm gonna start pm'ing the pics of the men I intend to date for approval .

Click to expand...

Hepheastus420 said:

Haha.. true that.. Everybody lies to look better. I don't think it should work that way in the long run. Relationships are built on trust. Which is why many don't last.


I don't date girls I'm not attracted to, why would I do that? However, I have dated girls that don't exactly meet other guys' standards. But that was fine with me.



I have standards, yes.. But I give everybody a chance. Don't get me wrong though, I have standards too. The difference between me and you is that I give everybody a chance. Fairness.

Now if the person has stinky ass breath or has BO, I won't be attracted since they obviously don't care to take care of themselves. That stems int their personality. Me and you are different though, your version of ugly is like a guy being short or something.



It's not really a secret.. People are well known to be shallow. We all are shallow, just on different levels. But I still think everybody should at least get a chance.. Just a small chance to show the other person there's more than meets the eye. JMO

Click to expand...