Is this a male or female plant

I have two plants one is deffs a female the other one however not to sure no 2 white hairs should i wait or get rid off it. They are both about 1 month from seed

Not looking good

Your pictures dont look like anything yet, you should wait till its clear before destroying plants.

I know people like to guess the sex but with a little patience you dont have to guess or destroy perfectly good plants

First and foremost your photos are purple and far away

If they're a month from seed then you're prob not at maturity point yet. keep eye though. sometimes at a month they will but usually 6 weeks.

Be patient.

Take a break, and check back in a week or so. Even if they showed balls oday another week likely wouldn't hurt anything. As mentioned, I'd wait.