L.A. will never change

K062706

Active Member
I don't live in the greatest neighborhood I live in deep Los Angeles where the majority of people are either black or Hispanic,Today a guy am dating from school came over to see me (he's white) and since he lives a particular nice middle class area in Orange County he is not firmiliar on how things are in my part of town. Well anyway long story short he got severely beaten by a gang known by the bloods just for beinig white in the wrong side of town. WTF! it shouldn't matter what race we are we're all brothers and sisters-- but yeah I agree all races have they're cultural differences but that doesn't give anyone the right to disown a person we have to be willing to sit down and talk to one another. The worlds a mess because people are so full of hate always wanting to destroy one another..we should learn ways to reconstruct rather than destroy. Fck am just so pissed right now, I'm just thinking what would of happen to him If I weren't there? he could of been shot and killed just cause he wanted to come see me., those guys took mercy on him just because I begged them to stop. too many people hate, they fuss, they complain. they beat others down in their attempts to reach the top. why? imagine what we could do if we stopped that. if we truly and individually became forces for change. I think that its possible to stop the hate.i think its possible to be a better person, a better nation, a better world and i think we can do it. It's just stupid..... life is too short to live with hate.
 

Red Robin

New Member
Thats why I carry a gun, Im never gonna get jumped by a bunch of black dudes just because Im white. If someone was gonna try and jump me, they might as well kill me because if they dont im gonna put 12 rounds in their chest.
 

K062706

Active Member
So you rather spend the rest of your life in prison for getting jumped. That's exactly the ignorance am talking about... that's stupid
 

swishsweet

Well-Known Member
Lol thats just continuing the problem though robin. Violence doesn't end violence. Sorry about your boyfriend though, he probably did nothing wrong except be in the wrong place at the wrong time.
 

Nice Ol Bud

Well-Known Member
So you rather spend the rest of your life in prison for getting jumped. That's exactly the ignorance am talking about... that's stupid
Someone walks up to you and knocks you in the face,
You going to stand their and say, "lets solve this buddy!"
Not being a douche but you know what I mean?
Self defense is a whole nother thing.
If I got jumped and carried a .38 id blow off all 6 rounds at the fucks.
Self Defense.
I know what you mean about world peace and no fighting,
for I am the same way..
but when someone wants to cause pain on you,
ofcourse try to solve it non-physically.
But if their putting your life in jeopardy by all means show 'em hell.
Keep it smoking!

-Nice Ol' Bud
 

K062706

Active Member
Lol thats just continuing the problem though robin. Violence doesn't end violence. Sorry about your boyfriend though, he probably did nothing wrong except be in the wrong place at the wrong time.
Well he's not boyfriend yet, we just started dating for like 3 weeks.... but now I don't know what we are... he left angry.. I called him and he wont return my phone calls or text's.. but it's still too early too see what's going on, I really like him and now am thinking what will he tell his parents! he got beaten for coming to see a Hispanic girl? what will they think of me.
this really sucks.
 

Red Robin

New Member
Im prepared for anything.

And you would not go to prison for life, if all your doing is protecting your own.
Im not going back on my statement that I will shoot and kill any mother fucker that has enough balls to try and jump me. Fuck that! I will let out the fury on their asses and kill every last one of them until, I feel that my life is no longer in danger. Im a veteran of iraq. I have fired my weapon at other humans plenty of times.
 

swishsweet

Well-Known Member
Well he's not boyfriend yet, we just started dating for like 3 weeks.... but now I don't know what we are... he left angry.. I called him and he wont return my phone calls or text's.. but it's still too early too see what's going on, I really like him and now am thinking what will he tell his parents! he got beaten for coming to see a Hispanic girl? what will they think of me.
this really sucks.
Damn... Maybe he lost his phone in the tussle? Either way, its not your fault. It is those kid's parent's fault.
 

Nice Ol Bud

Well-Known Member
Well he's not boyfriend yet, we just started dating for like 3 weeks.... but now I don't know what we are... he left angry.. I called him and he wont return my phone calls or text's.. but it's still too early too see what's going on, I really like him and now am thinking what will he tell his parents! he got beaten for coming to see a Hispanic girl? what will they think of me.
this really sucks.
Stuff happens for a reason,
maybe this was a good thing?
I dont know..
But good luck..
This world is not like it used to be.
 

smokebomb1

Active Member
you stated that you knew he was from a better neighborhood and not up to par on your side of town. why didnt you go to see him in his hood? or warn him about yours. there are decisions here that you made that put him in harms way. im not saying you are to blame for other peoples actions but you could have made another choice on where, how and when. you could have met him somwhere away from your hood or told him of the possabilities of being jumped. then the decisions would have been his if he chose to come to see you. you will never be able to stop the gang banging by yourself but you can help ppl avoid it.
 

KushXOJ

Well-Known Member
some people dont know any better ..if people put as much effort into getting to know somebody regardless of their skin color or their religions beliefs the world would be a much better place. I come from a neighborhood similar to L.A.(Oakland) mostly blacks and hispanics and i was raised around the violence and seen people get their ass whooped just because they were white in my neighborhood. Its truely is sad. In high School i thought this was "funny" or "entertaining" but thats because i didnt know any better. Two years has gone by since then i feel have matured a WHOLE lot since then , i actually have a bunch of close white friends (which i got close to through mary jane which makes me wonder WHY IS IT ILLEGAL? )now that ive grown up a little and learned how to get along with different races ..i just wish i can help some of my people do the same because judging someone by their skin color is the stupidist(if thats a word) thing somebody can do .. there is a bunch we can learn from each other if we take the time to, i hope more people realize this .. BTW i hope your friend is ok sorry to hear about this
 

K062706

Active Member
you stated that you knew he was from a better neighborhood and not up to par on your side of town. why didnt you go to see him in his hood? or warn him about yours. there are decisions here that you made that put him in harms way. im not saying you are to blame for other peoples actions but you could have made another choice on where, how and when. you could have met him somwhere away from your hood or told him of the possabilities of being jumped. then the decisions would have been his if he chose to come to see you. you will never be able to stop the gang banging by yourself but you can help ppl avoid it.
No, he knows how it is down here... I've told him dozens of times not to come if I were not to pick up the phone or if i were to be at work.. busy.. the times we've had gone out "yes" he does comes and picks me up and we leave right away but today i have the flu and he insisted on coming over... but yeah you are right i could of just kicked him out of my house pr told him not to stay. when he came over i didn't bring him inside the house because it's disrespectful to my parents to bring a guy inside (but to my brothers it's ok to bring a girl in.. fucking stupid) but yeah I should of warn him about the violence over here.
 

K062706

Active Member
Stuff happens for a reason,
maybe this was a good thing?
I dont know..
But good luck..
This world is not like it used to be.
No it's not a good thing because his not answering my phone calls. but if you ment by him not dating a hispanic or other racial color girl for now on... well then you might consider that a good thing i guess.
 

smokebomb1

Active Member
I understand the respect the parent thing and why you didnt let him in. If he knew the risk and came over anyway then he really has no reason to be mad at you. im sure this is a lesson learned and i hope he is doing better. next time dont tell your date or BF where you live untill your comfortable with him accepting your wishes, like DONT come over. just go meet him somwhere.
 
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