My Friend Might Die.

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BackDoorMan

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I just found out about an hour ago, that my bestfriend might die.. he was in a wreck back home. He tore an artery that goes to his heart, and they said that if he does live, he wont be able to walk...

I feel so numb.. he was one of only two people that was always there for me.. no matter if I had drugs or not.. if we had words the day before he would still be there for me... and now I can't be there for him... he had been dealing with sme rough times, and I just up and bounced on him... was too occupied with my own shit, to stop and.. well you know..

he is somebody I look up to.. I don't know what to do.. i'm hundreeds of miles away, and I can't get home... I just wanna be there for him..
 
howhighru

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damn sry to hear that man. i know how it feels to have someone close to you that is not doing well and you cannot get there to be with em. keep your spirits up as much as you can and PRAY for him if thats all you can do right now.......
 
marijuano1

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if your hundreds of miles away you should atleast get a vacation and try to see him. Christmas coming up and new year, you would think his best friend would be around. i dont know how far but if you care for him bad as homies you should try. He might die just think about that, because if you dont show up you might in his funeral and thats fucked up because you rather show up when hes dead than alive ( but not in a bad way). just try to be their for him. :cry:
 
marijuano1

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BackDoorMan said:
he was like a brother.. the only guy I ever said I love you too... we known each other for years...
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so your telling me you wouldnt see your brother before he died?? If not your fucked up becauze for somebody that is close you dont let nothing get in the way and be selfish. im not trying to be fucked up but you should be their if he dies or not , but you shoud be their. TRY, thats my opinion. I would if i were you. barrow money or whatever you have to do just do it. be thier earlier than the 18th thats all im saying just be their dude. dont be fucked up. he might want his best friend to bet their also. just hope you do whats best...:-|
 
BackDoorMan

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ok, i'm going to guess that you're pretty simple.. I don't have the fucking money to go see my fucking brother you fucking peice of shit.. thats why I cant go see him.. before you start making assumptions why dont you get teh whole fucking story?
 
BackDoorMan

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what kind of person just starts jumping somebodies case about something they don't have a fucking clue about? You don't think I feel bad enough about all this fucking shit? you felt the need to pile it on? thanks you fucking peice of shit.. I hope your fucking kids are born fucking retarded you motherfucker
 
BackDoorMan

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you're a real peace of work... come in here where i'm obviously dealing with some fucking issues and start calling me out/ Like I don't have enough to deal with... i'm trying to fucking just cope with the fact that my friends laying in surgery and if.. IF he comes out of it ok.. he won't ever walk again... knowing all he ever wanted to do was play football.. be a running back.. his greatest joy beyond that was working.. something he's never going to be able to do again.. and not only that.. but there's not a goddamn thing I can fucking do about it...

and you felt the fucking need to come at me like that? way to go.. you're a wonderful fuckin human being.. not a waste of fuckin good oxygen at all... i'm the fucking bad guy because i'm stuck in fucking oklahoma.. a place I don't even want to be in to begin with.. I should have been home months ago... i shoulda never fucking left to begin with.. so thanks alot for your fuckin compassion and kind fucking words...
 
JN811

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BackDoorMan said:
you're a real peace of work... come in here where i'm obviously dealing with some fucking issues and start calling me out/ Like I don't have enough to deal with... i'm trying to fucking just cope with the fact that my friends laying in surgery and if.. IF he comes out of it ok.. he won't ever walk again... knowing all he ever wanted to do was play football.. be a running back.. his greatest joy beyond that was working.. something he's never going to be able to do again.. and not only that.. but there's not a goddamn thing I can fucking do about it...

and you felt the fucking need to come at me like that? way to go.. you're a wonderful fuckin human being.. not a waste of fuckin good oxygen at all... i'm the fucking bad guy because i'm stuck in fucking oklahoma.. a place I don't even want to be in to begin with.. I should have been home months ago... i shoulda never fucking left to begin with.. so thanks alot for your fuckin compassion and kind fucking words...
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sorry to hear that bro and im sure its got the best of you but you gotta expect responses like that in any forum... I wish you and him the best
 
BackDoorMan

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I guess I expected people to atleast get some of teh story before they started casting stones.. but oh well.. thanks dude... I'm working on plans to get home.. but I just paid for my flight on the 18th, so i'm broke now...
 
darkdestruction420

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oh my god, thats fucking terrible, I had 2 of my best friends in the world get smashed by a drunkdriver who already had like 5 prior dui's simce my state is so fucking retarded when it comes to drunk driving laws. its not even considered a criminal offense the first first time you get a dui.(only state in the country to have that law like that if im not mistaken. I hope you get some good news man and he will be ok. one thing i dont get-why would he not be able to walk from having an artery near his heart burst? i thought basically only spinal cord injury would paralize someone like that. dont forget we're here to talk to if you need someone to talk to and your not all alone in this
 
smokinmayne

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keep your head up mane

things are shitty then they are good

its life as im finding out.....

good luck either way

and hey atleast ya get to see the dexter finale
 
blaze1camp

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sorry to hear that bro, dont pay no attetion to nobody on here just try and get there if you cant try to get in touch with his fam. so if he do make it out ok (alive) then theres no hard feeling like dude aint come see me type of shit. but best of luck on getting home...
 
BackDoorMan

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darkdestruction420 said:
oh my god, thats fucking terrible, I had 2 of my best friends in the world get smashed by a drunkdriver who already had like 5 prior dui's simce my state is so fucking retarded when it comes to drunk driving laws. its not even considered a criminal offense the first first time you get a dui.(only state in the country to have that law like that if im not mistaken. I hope you get some good news man and he will be ok. one thing i dont get-why would he not be able to walk from having an artery near his heart burst? i thought basically only spinal cord injury would paralize someone like that. dont forget we're here to talk to if you need someone to talk to and your not all alone in this
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thats not the only thing wrong with him.. i'm not sure of all the details, as i'm getting them as they come.. but it tore his artery and the last thing anybody heard was he couldn't feel anything below his waist.. the Dr's told his grandma that he has a 50/50 chance of living.. but that he's most likely to never walk again...
 
The Real Peter Parker

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BackDoorMan said:
what kind of person just starts jumping somebodies case about something they don't have a fucking clue about? You don't think I feel bad enough about all this fucking shit? you felt the need to pile it on? thanks you fucking peice of shit.. I hope your fucking kids are born fucking retarded you motherfucker
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There's a whole lot of fucking going on... But seriously, that sucks man. Sending good vibes your way and to your friend.
 
BackDoorMan

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i'm doing y best.. I bought a bag of some bullshit weed and am smoking it up, trying to think in a positive manner... but I've sent word that if anything happens, I want to be a pallbearer... he;s tough and strong.. I just know he's been dealing with alot lately.. getting lost in the shuffle of everyday life... and sometimes it's just easier to let go than hold on... and I feel so helpless being stuck up here.. and he's all the way in MS....

I'm trying to figure something out.. but my trucks broke down and i'm out of money.. i'm going to try and get my truck running in the morning and see if I can't refund my ticket home, and just use the cash to get as far as my truck will take me... and hope maybe somebody can get me the rest of the way..
 
darkdestruction420

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BackDoorMan said:
I guess I expected people to atleast get some of teh story before they started casting stones.. but oh well.. thanks dude... I'm working on plans to get home.. but I just paid for my flight on the 18th, so i'm broke now...
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to be honest he just said he considered it fucked up that you wouldnt get to someone who he thought of as a brother's bedside by any means possible. thats why he put imo, he was just expressing his thoughts on the situation. he wasnt attacking you bro.
 
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