my boy is going through the same thing. he been with the girl for 8 years. he's been engaged to the girl for 5 and he was a wreck. she cheated on him countless times. once with his best friend while my boy was in the same room sleeping. and he still took her back. countless cheating after that and he still brought her back. in the end it was her decision to break up with her and he was the one on his knees begging her to take him back. aint that some shit? i had to slap him litteraly around fro him to get the point. i told him look obveously she don't love u. if she did then she wouldnt be doin the things she is doin to u right now. u dont want somebody who dont love u back. get over it. and he took the bitch to get her nails done the next day. and i was pissed off. i threatend to not be his friend anymore for him to stand up for himself. dude, u dont wanna be like him. u dont wanna be feeling like this the rest of your life. go out there and get some pussy. trust me. if you found 1 girl that can make u happy, u can find another. believe me when i say this. im in a simular situation, and if i find any excuse to leave, im dipin'. you dont need this shit man. u really don't. and remember my words, "you never stress over a female". ever because the ones you dont stress over are the ones u should be keeping. rememba that. keep in touch homie and welcome to RIU