My wife told me she will call the police

netpirate said:

Damn those non pot ppl!

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Yeppers.
My wife can't smoke, but she says" If you don't smoke I'm leaving"*lol* Hmm I wonder what she's saying..Other than she doesn't want to see me in the news fer losing it*eg* Still cheaper than therapy..oh wait...it IS thearaputic......."ere
if 1 is good.......

go find yourself a woman that supports the natural herb.... and you cant be arrested for smoking it.... if she tries calling the cops...tell her if you go down..shes goin down with you... she's already an accessory for knowing about it!

Me and my wife have been together longer than many people on this forum have been alive.Being married is not easy,even when everything goes right.
Talk with here first,find out what is driving here to say these things.Show here the truth about marijuana and compair it to booze for health effects.Pot will win out every time.
I have said some terrible things to my wife,as she has done to me,but i'm giong to call the cops on you is not one of them.We both would walk on that statement.Good luck in whatever you dPH

man i would wait for a day that shes not working on and has time to spend at home with you,
then i would make her a "special herbal omlet" breakfast ,or a special"green tea "

dont make it strong thou cos she might get paranoide but i realy think thatl make her see the light (or her lawyer maybe,,,...mmm)
and if that doesnt work u can always shoot the bitch

just kidding u should love and support her and take her to the fucking mall when ever she wants

dump that bitch ASAP

any chick that threatens your FREEDOM isnt worth your company

At first, my wife was very "anti-pot" and she got this new job that made her nervous and she would be snappy and hot headed all the time when she got off work. I convinced her to try some Jack Herer I had at the time by telling her "it was my fantasy". She smoked it and realized how chill and relaxed it made her. Its not her thing and we may "take a ride" from time to time to spend time together but she realized that me smoking a few g's a week isn't that bad and weed aint a devil weapon. I guess what I am trying to say is that the good shit doesn't happen until after you say "I DO" and a situation like smoking/growing may take some time for your wife to get used to. I also lied about smoking when I knew could get away with it until the time came. I know lie'n is wrong and it did feel like I was cheating on her with Mary Jane but I had to juggle both. I dont have a habit, and I stopped when she and I first got together years ago but I chose it over alcohol because alcohol just always says domestic violence to me.

If you are stoned around her, just don't make it obvious. I used these eye drops called Rohto V for the redness and killed the odor and she never interrogated me about being stoned.

If you really love her, time is of the essence. I'm on my first grow!

I understand that I wasn't a toker when we married and now I am. And I know that can be a hell of a thing for a non-toker to accept. That is when when I sat her down and had a calm conversation about how I was going to start using pot in moderation, I told her I'd be happy to keep it totally out of her view and everything if it upset her. She is welcome to hold her own view on it. The thing is, I'm just not willing to give it up totally. I just see no reason to blindly follow her ignorant, illogical rules. (I didn't put it to her that bluntly... but I made it clear she doesn't get to tell me how to live just because she is my wife).

To threaten to bring the police into it just tells me she hates pot more then she loves me. And that is just so opposite what love and marriage should be about, I think. I don't know if she would follow through with her threat, but I don't want to take the risk to find out, you know? As far as I'm concerned, I have no choice but to believe her in the threat. She is my wife, after all. If I can't believe her, who can I believe?

Sunnysideup said:

I don't agree with her threatening to call the police...but, I do see her point. When you married her you were not a smoker. She didn't sign up to marry a stoner, and you were not a stoner when you said your vows. She has every right to ask you not to smoke, imo. That is far as it should go though, if you say no then she should divorce you. She might be telling you she is calling the police in hopes of scaring you out of what your doing. She is probably desperate to get you to stop. Do you really think she will follow through with her threats?

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Thanks for all your replies everyone... especially those of you who are married and have that insight.

I agree we got married for the wrong reasons. We both grew up strict Baptist and were told marriage was God's will for single people, basically, and that you can't have sex (even kiss, at our specific church) before marriage. So we of course rushed to get married when we found we liked each other... me probably for the sex (which it turns out, of course, is horrible) as much as for the love I felt for her... and her probably b/c she wants to have children and figured I was as good as any. I don't know. I'm just guessing. She would disagree with my assessment of her motivations, I'm sure. She would claim to love me... but at this point, especially after her threat, I trust her assessment, even of herself, about as far as I can toss her.

What has probably happened is that she has decided that if I smoke pot I'm not a suitable father, and so she's basically like "fuck this... I'll put him in jail and that'll teach him." Who knows?

So, I agree we both probably had fucked up motivations to marry. But as far as me not being "the man" of the relationship, that is bullshit. I don't need to try to act like a man... I am a man. I'm not backing down on this issue, I'm standing up for my freedom and not letting her tell me exactly how I need to live my life. That's about as "manly" as I know how to be.

zurces said:

Man you already know what it is
I'm guessing she has friends and a good family backround
HEY like i said YOU ALREADY KNOW!
she is talking to em what should i do etc.
and it might sounds something like this.........

What should i do?............. what would you do?
???????...................
Marijuana! whats next? Herion?
I told you he was no good for you
Hell i dunno man, but! one person certainly does.............

I think you should take a look at why you got married cause it sounds like it was not either up to you per say or some other shit like not wanting to be alone or she was atleast the best thing going for you and you could not do better...............now it's just an example soooooooo i hope you're not mad.
I say this
I THINK THAT IF YOU WERE THE MAN OF THE RELATIONSHIP THIS WOULD NOT EVEN BE UP FOR CONVERSATION

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I have to admit, divorcing her may be pushing it too far. The way sher sees it, you are doing an illegal drug. She probably classifies it in the same category as meth. It's not her fault. She's just ill-informed. Enlighten her. If she wants no parts of it, a quiet divorce for "Irreconcilable differences" is in order.

ok, Dont divorce her...

Give her a...

remember what you typed in your 1st post

"I can ever trust someone who has threatened me like that" wtf man, you look up your local laws? click my sig and find your state, here in ohio under 100g poss or cult is just a ticket with no record or jail... but like IL its a serious crime for possession 2.5 grams, good luck man

jsn9333 said:

I agree we got married for the wrong reasons. We both grew up strict Baptist and were told marriage was God's will for single people, basically, and that you can't have sex (even kiss, at our specific church) before marriage. So we of course rushed to get married when we found we liked each other... me probably for the sex (which it turns out, of course, is horrible) as much as for the love I felt for her...

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OMG.... she threatens to call the police on you AND the sex is bad?

If this were my situation I'd already be gone.....

Best of luck to you.

Florida Girl said:

OMG.... she threatens to call the police on you AND the sex is bad?

If this were my situation I'd already be gone.....

Best of luck to you.

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I'm not gonna lie... If the cutti' wasn't up to par... I'm out... I tell everyone of the females that I've dated... I smoke, your not gonna change that...

and if you dont like it... you can kick rocks sweetheart...