DE HPS the Philips lamp is what I run.
SE HPS I use the Super Hortilux pink box
SE MH I don't have a recommendation from personal experience as my only SE fixtures require a vertical lamp and most MH lamps are horizontal only. If ran in the vertical position the lamp won't last very long at all. I just haven't messed with them because of that. I should try to find some 400w, 600w and 1000w SE MH lamps that will run vertical or universal. I would like to be able to switch out my side lighting for MH during ripening. I have done this with some 10,000 Kelvin 1kW DE MH lamps in my overhead fixtures but I usually can't change those out due to the plants being too tall and preventing me from getting on top of my trellis rig with a 2x12 lol.
Another thought I had about your ballast issue, I want to be clear that I do not have cable TV or internet so I can't verify what I have read about the RF emission or lack thereof on the ballasts I use. If you have cable then you may want to stick with the Phantom Commercial because it's listed as FCC compliant and internally shielded to prevent RF interference with the other cable subscribers on your loop. I am also told the Gavita's are good to go. Wouldn't want to buy a bunch of ballasts only to replace them after the cable guy knocks on your door lol.
They would just stop working, a few times they would take the lamp out when they failed. I even have an Intermatic panel guard surge suppressor on my 125 amp sub panel for the grow. The first batch of lamps were the Nanolux ones that came with the fixtures, then I replaced with Hortilux and Philips is what I switched to later.