it looks like its growing alright...good amount of leaves...with the long stem u might want to pile some dirt around it, kinda like an ant hold thing thin it as it goes up, i did that for mine and left about a half inch to the first leaves, makes it more stable and shouldnt hurt the plant...at first with the leaves on one side i would say maybe try to centralize the light a lil more cuz it looked like they were reachin for it...i mean as it is now they look good, somebody said something about stress so maybe that will make it go male, idunno, but a lotta that is genetics...even if mine goes male im just chalkin it up to experience...even with ur previous problems i think she looks like she's doin pretty good tho man