precisely........... read the plant. i wait to feed until i say to myself........"self.......those little fuckers are really takin' off." careful watering is more important now than feeding. make it send out roots by allowing the soil to dry between waterings. a constantly wet root zone will cause stunting and lock-out.I dont think the time is the key to this question, but the plant it self.
I wait until the cotyledons start yellowing before the first feed. And/or I see at least 3 set of true leaves.