Biological Graffity
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...so as far as you are concerned it is not your problem anymore...I mean its a preety fucked up situation if you are staying with her just becouse of someone elses kid...
Odd situation, seeking advice and input
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Padawanbater2
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So she thinks she lost it. She'll find out today for sure. We're just friends at this point. She says she doesn't read this stuff anymore and wishes she didn't. Who knows.. I First posted this thread and the first thing she said to me was something along the lines of "make sure you tell both sides of the story..", I thought that was too coincidental.
moash
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tharoomman
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mistyriffs
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it would suck if he looked exactly like the other guy, then you would pretty much have to look at him in your house every single day
medicalmaryjane
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well that's tough to deal with but it sounds like your relationship could build better from here if you both decide that's what you want. best of luck & love to you both 
CR500ROOST
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Put on your best running shoes and run fast and never look back.
Padawanbater2
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lol
Drunk!
There's something that's always going to be there.. It's difficult to find people who are genuine, in my experience anyway.
Always forgive, never forget.
Drunk!
There's something that's always going to be there.. It's difficult to find people who are genuine, in my experience anyway.
Always forgive, never forget.
olylifter420
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so whats the idea of being with someone if they hurt you, you forgive, but you dont forget about it?
thats the whole idea of forgiving and moving on, how can you move on if you dont forget?
Padawanbater2
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You forgive because we're all human and we all make mistakes. It takes a genuine feeling of regret to admit a mistake and acknowledge the consequences. This, to me, is worthy of forgiveness. Though it still depends on the circumstances..
tip top toker
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Look at it in one of two ways, a. You're stuck with someone elses kid. b. you get to have a child to raise and someone else keeps giving you free cash
mistyriffs
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someone else keeps giving you free cash
kids are fucking expensive. no way is it free. plus, i would never use a child's situation to pull in a lil extra dough every month.
tip top toker
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Not quite sure how it works over there, but if you are stuck with your partner having someone elses kid and you see things through, you can't complain about the other bloke being forced to pay out cash each month to the mum. It's nothing to do with pulling in more dough, but if the womans going to have the child, it's hard to complain if there's some extra money to better the childs life even if by a litte bit This is all on the assumption the parents are responsible 
i'm reading this on a weed forum, oh dear just kidding Padwan
Shush you! i know what i mean. My words never really taste right once i've had a smoke, can't put anything into the form i would like
This is all on the assumption the parents are responsible i'm reading this on a weed forum, oh dear just kidding Padwan Shush you! i know what i mean. My words never really taste right once i've had a smoke, can't put anything into the form i would like
W Dragon
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it sounds like you love her alot more than she loves you mate, after all she doesn't love you enough not too sleep with other people given the chance 3 people in 3 years, how many more will there be in another 3years? child or not mate i'd dump her arse for good and save yourself the heartache after all is said and done how much should you have to forgive her for 1,2,3 and that's just so far. sounds like there will be alot more forgiving in your future if you get back with this girl
Finshaggy
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Padawanbater2
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Yeah, she said she lost it. After her car accident she was on a regular regiment of medications, she wasn't drinking or anything, just random circumstances.
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