DarkWeb
Well-Known Member
I might have. That's some restraint I hope I have. I'm not looking forward to dating.
Wake n Bake, Nothing Better!
- Thread starter Chiceh
- Start date
Metasynth
Well-Known Member
I never got physically abused. But I sure wish they had balanced a little with the mental abuse.
Instead, as a child, I was yelled at for breathing too loud, or chewing too loud. And any time I showed interest in a subject, I was discouraged and told how difficult it would be
No one ever told me how proud of me they were. Or that I did a really good job. Instead, I was always told how I could have done better, or shown the flaws in my work.
So I gave up on life, and throughout my later teens I strove for mediocrity.
Instead, as a child, I was yelled at for breathing too loud, or chewing too loud. And any time I showed interest in a subject, I was discouraged and told how difficult it would be
No one ever told me how proud of me they were. Or that I did a really good job. Instead, I was always told how I could have done better, or shown the flaws in my work.
So I gave up on life, and throughout my later teens I strove for mediocrity.
Singlemalt
Well-Known Member
It's rough; but if you've done a good job and they have their heads on straight the anticipation was the worst of it. I have twin girls, one married her HS sweetheart, the other is still single. In HS their male friends were all nerdy and less interested in sex than we were at that age
Laughing Grass
Well-Known Member
we're proud of you.
DarkWeb
Well-Known Member
I'm actually worried about her being to nice and trusting.
Laughing Grass
Well-Known Member
Boys only want one thing was constantly drilled into me growing up.
Ask her mom what she thinks. She's running the Sugar & Spice routine on you. We are somewhat impervious to it.
I was told that and it was very confusing to me. I mostly hung with the guys because I liked surfing, basketball, baseball, chess, and playing in the ditch. So what did I have to give up? As long as it wasn't playing in the ditch I was good.
DarkWeb
Well-Known Member
Nah, it's something we've been talking about. The girl doesn't have any mean in her.
DarkWeb
Well-Known Member
Her brother on the other hand is going to be a handful. He's got the attitude lol
DarkWeb
Well-Known Member
I've been chased out of the house and down the road
Singlemalt
Well-Known Member
My ex started the girls on birthcontrol around 15; they didn't need it til 18. You should consider that just cause she is so sweet
DarkWeb
Well-Known Member
I'm not as worried about pregnancy as much as just being bullied or taken advantage of in anyway.
Singlemalt
Well-Known Member
I say this because if she is so trusting and doesn't recognise guile she could get into situations
DarkWeb
Well-Known Member
Laughing Grass
Well-Known Member
helicopter parents give you trust issues lol.
BudmanTX
Well-Known Member
i should have this morning as well....been a weird day already here at the shop