I now what I'd do if I lived there, here's your sign:I talked to my dad and Karen last night. They are so excited for thanksgiving. I can only imagine! I know I sure am thankful for their recovery!
They’re going to celebrate at my asshole brother’s house. My pos mom also goes. Even if it wasn’t four hours away I would not go.
And afterwards they insist on coming up here too. I’ve tried to convince him we can have ours the next day or whatever. He said nooooooo I want to see you.
So I have no idea what we will do.

Seriously that sucks, I'd try playing it in terms of how tired Karen must be right now. After a day of revelry it will be exhausting. I hope he listens to your tomorrow or better later so she has some recovery time.