What are your opinions of mixed race relationships?

are mixed race relationships ok?

  • I dont have a problem with mixed race relationships, live and let live i say

    Votes: 87 64.9%
  • I dont mind some mixed race relationships but others i dont

    Votes: 4 3.0%
  • I am totally disugsted by the idea

    Votes: 12 9.0%
  • I couldnt give a shit really

    Votes: 31 23.1%

  • Total voters
    134

nickledyme

Well-Known Member
I do shit all the time that my parents don't like.It's my life not theirs...they had their time to shine.I come from a broken home,my parents got divorced when I was a kid.But what I'm trying to say is that once u hit that age or u go out on your own.Your parents shouldn't have the right to run you....there is a difference between respect and being able to run your own life,sometimes called free-will.
 

heymo85

Well-Known Member
Fuck, I would hate to have you as my kid. You must not have been raised right if you don't believe in obedience to parental will. You don't seem to understand that when you do things, there can be consequences. If you decide to break the law, you take the chance of going to jail. And if you do something other people don't want you to do, you take the risk of destroying relationships. She took a gamble and lost. And if my family is fucked up, I'd hate to see yours.

The reason I don't talk to her isn't because her boyfriend is Mexican (although, as I said, it is best to avoid them, even though I don't really care if people do it), it's because she is doing something (and someone) that my parents don't consent to, although they still talk to her. I took it a step further and don't talk to her.
lol dude im 22 years old and i was raised just fine..i do things that make me happy and my mom and I are great friends..if shes an adult then guess what..SHE DOESNT HAVE 2 LISTEN TO THEM ANYMORE..i do believe in obedience but not after im 18..not even that when im old enough to make my own decisions and live on my own i dont have 2 listen to anyone anymore and your sister isnt breaking any laws by dating him my mom taught me well and yea i still listen and take advice from her..but im an adult and she knows im gonna make my own decisions and respects it...yea your just flipping your words around..you dont talk to her because she is doing something u and your fam doesnt like..which is date a mexican lol..you cant say that u dont talk 2 her cuz hes mexican and then say you do it cuz shes doing something you dont like..there one in the same.
 

skunkushybrid

New Member
It's fine to disown a member of your family. We have free will.

She knew you wouldn't like it but went ahead anyway. You're better off without each other.

One day though, you shall be struck with a realisation. We are ALL related.
 

suicidesamurai

Well-Known Member
I do shit all the time that my parents don't like.It's my life not theirs...they had their time to shine.I come from a broken home,my parents got divorced when I was a kid.But what I'm trying to say is that once u hit that age or u go out on your own.Your parents shouldn't have the right to run you....there is a difference between respect and being able to run your own life,sometimes called free-will.
Free will also includes the freedom to choose whether or not you are obedient.
 

suicidesamurai

Well-Known Member
lol dude im 22 years old and i was raised just fine..i do things that make me happy and my mom and I are great friends..if shes an adult then guess what..SHE DOESNT HAVE 2 LISTEN TO THEM ANYMORE..i do believe in obedience but not after im 18..not even that when im old enough to make my own decisions and live on my own i dont have 2 listen to anyone anymore and your sister isnt breaking any laws by dating him my mom taught me well and yea i still listen and take advice from her..but im an adult and she knows im gonna make my own decisions and respects it...yea your just flipping your words around..you dont talk to her because she is doing something u and your fam doesnt like..which is date a mexican lol..you cant say that u dont talk 2 her cuz hes mexican and then say you do it cuz shes doing something you dont like..there one in the same.
I already told you it has nothing to do with my own opinion of interracial relationships.

I have also already stated (I think in the thread about being a proud white male) that racial or ethnic pride of any sort is foolish. If I don't like racial pride, I'm probably not going to be much of a racial bigot.
 

heymo85

Well-Known Member
I already told you it has nothing to do with my own opinion of interracial relationships.

I have also already stated (I think in the thread about being a proud white male) that racial or ethnic pride of any sort is foolish. If I don't like racial pride, I'm probably not going to be much of a racial bigot.

your very wishy-washy..
tell me this and just answer it very simply...why dont you speak to your sister anymore?
 

heymo85

Well-Known Member
I personally don't care if people want to mix outside of their race, so to speak. Because I'm a libertarian, even if I see something that I don't really agree with (like someone hiring a prostitute in Nevada where it is legal, for example), I would still be glad to see it in a weird kind of way if free will is being practiced and the government isn't sticking their nose in (miscegenation used to be illegal, of course).

That being said, family is different. My sister (who lives in Vegas) is dating a Mexican, and I no longer speak to her because of it. It is something that, although my parents more or less accept it, I know they don't agree with it. My other sister (who lives here in Alabama) knows better than to do such a thing, because she respects the wishes of her family. If the Vegas sister doesn't want to do that, she can deal with no longer having a brother. When her relationship with the guy ends, our familial relationship will not resume (atleast not for quite some time), and she can learn a harsh lesson from that. There is too much of a stigma attached to mixed-race couples, so it is best to avoid them.
before you answer......
 

heymo85

Well-Known Member
actually truth be told i dont care about this anymore..just kinda sad that you and your families racism would come between you and your sister...love,peace,unity,acceptance,hospitality,honosty,kindness..these are things that matter in life,your own arrogance will one day bite you in the ass...especially in this country.
RESPECT :peace:
 

suicidesamurai

Well-Known Member
your very wishy-washy..
tell me this and just answer it very simply...why dont you speak to your sister anymore?
Because she is doing something that my family doesn't agree with and is doing it anyway. If they got married and had kids, my parents would have Mexican grandkids. They DO NOT want that, and it really doesn't matter whether you think that is wrong. His parents live in Mexico and don't speak English. It will create a rift in the family. My parents want a normal family. The type of family where they can be friends with their son-in-laws parents and speak the same language. She knows that and is being selfish. She was already married once, to a nice Marine. She decided she wasn't ready to get married and got divorced after only a year. She fucked that up. If she turns our family into some kind of transnational extended family, she will have fucked up again, in my parent's eyes. I also don't like the idea of her being with someone whose family is in another country.
 

suicidesamurai

Well-Known Member
actually truth be told i dont care about this anymore..just kinda sad that you and your families racism would come between you and your sister...love,peace,unity,acceptance,hospitality,honosty,kindness..these are things that matter in life,your own arrogance will one day bite you in the ass...especially in this country.
RESPECT :peace:
What do you for a living? Push carts at Wal-Mart? Save me your lectures. If I wanted to hear the opinions of people at your level I'd go to the homeless shelter and spark up a conservation.
 

heymo85

Well-Known Member
What do you for a living? Push carts at Wal-Mart? Save me your lectures. If I wanted to hear the opinions of people at your level I'd go to the homeless shelter and spark up a conservation.
:) actually i work for the county i live in and at 22 years old i dont think $45,000 a year plus benies is bad...my level..haha..im sorry but you have made yourself look like an idiot.
 

suicidesamurai

Well-Known Member
:) actually i work for the county i live in and at 22 years old i dont think $45,000 a year plus benies is bad...my level..haha..im sorry but you have made yourself look like an idiot.
Working for the county isn't that bad financially but is also nothing to brag about. But I wasn't talking about monetarily - your job is typically an indication of intelligence level.
 

heymo85

Well-Known Member
Working for the county isn't that bad financially but is also nothing to brag about. But I wasn't talking about monetarily - your job is typically an indication of intelligence level.
funny how you tried to go after career...listen i am wasted youth and im the first one to admit it. i did 2 years college and got my A degree..i dont care if you think im smart or not cuz im probably not that smart..but i make a living..i live a truthfull life and im not a racist.

and i dont think your correct about your statement about your job being a indication of intelligence,ive met some brilliant people with shitty jobs..its just what you consider intelligence..to me your a fuckin idiot and im sure im the same too you..i say it because you couldnt stick to a story..you kept changing your mind..like i said..wishy-washy..and intelligent person usually remember what they said 2 sentences ago.
 

suicidesamurai

Well-Known Member
funny how you tried to go after career...listen i am wasted youth and im the first one to admit it. i did 2 years college and got my A degree..i dont care if you think im smart or not cuz im probably not that smart..but i make a living..i live a truthfull life and im not a racist.

and i dont think your correct about your statement about your job being a indication of intelligence,ive met some brilliant people with shitty jobs..its just what you consider intelligence..to me your a fuckin idiot and im sure im the same too you..i say it because you couldnt stick to a story..you kept changing your mind..like i said..wishy-washy..and intelligent person usually remember what they said 2 sentences ago.
I haven't changed my story. You just lack reading comprehension skills, as seen by the fact that you can't differentiate between my views and those that I clearly stated are those of my parents.

There are many intelligent people out there who have shitty jobs. I said it is an indication, not that it is a determining factor. As for intelligence being whatever you consider it to be, that doesn't fly. The concept of g, or general intelligence, is accepted by the majority of intelligence experts. I should know since I'm studying to become one. Even so, what I really wanted to do is get a county job. But alas, I'll have to settle with being a cognitive psychologist. Oh well, a man can dream...
 

heymo85

Well-Known Member
I haven't changed my story. You just lack reading comprehension skills, as seen by the fact that you can't differentiate between my views and those that I clearly stated are those of my parents.

There are many intelligent people out there who have shitty jobs. I said it is an indication, not that it is a determining factor. As for intelligence being whatever you consider it to be, that doesn't fly. The concept of g, or general intelligence, is accepted by the majority of intelligence experts. I should know since I'm studying to become one. Even so, what I really wanted to do is get a county job. But alas, I'll have to settle with being a cognitive psychologist. Oh well, a man can dream...
OH MY FUCKING GOD YOUR A PHYCHOLOGIST???lol......wow it took me a minute there...um ok..go back..read thru your posts..if you cant see where you changed your story and where i cleary pointed it out then...omg a phychologist??lol....whats your age ................................................................lol..wow
 

suicidesamurai

Well-Known Member
OH MY FUCKING GOD YOUR A PHYCHOLOGIST???lol......wow it took me a minute there...um ok..go back..read thru your posts..if you cant see where you changed your story and where i cleary pointed it out then...omg a phychologist??lol....whats your age ................................................................lol..wow
I didn't say I was a psychologist, I said I was studying to become one. My age is the same as yours.

Kindly point out in what ways I changed my story so that I know we are on the same page. I know you said I am contradicting myself by not talking to her, but also not caring if the guy is Mexican. I already explained that, so if that is what you are still thinking, let me know.
 
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