When To Tell Girlfriend I Grow??

Sneezy said:

i would say only tell her when she is blowing you and you have both thumbs in her ears.

then if she happens to find out she cant be mad that you didnt tell her

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HaHaHa

if you are gonna have a girl come by 3-4 times a week shes gonna find out. either tell her if you trust her or kick her to the curb. it thats simple. you cant be somekind of social freak if you are big time grower. either be cool and quiet and grow or get busted and robbed. seriously man you should know the rules

The woman I ended up marrying was the only one out of 15 years of dating that would seriously have a bong waiting for me when I got home and when I wake up. There is absolutely nothing better than a gorgeous woman half neeked in bed next to ya with a fat bowl of chronic ready to puff.
Kinda like Martha Washington (from dazed and confused.. LOL!) although i am not sure how gorgeous she was...
Anyways, I would tell her if you absolutely trust her with your life- not that you would die, but could face serious life changing consequences by getting on the wrong side (i.e. she calls the fuzz or blabs to all her mates)

That 5hit said:

i am married and my wife still dont know that i grow,
she and the kids are not allowed in my cave (office)
we been together over 10 years, and trust she has no idea, im so extream when it comes to my personal area if someone even comes close to my room i loose my mind, so when we have vistors my wife always calls me on the cell. we have been together for a long time and its not that i dont trust her , (at least not anymore, thats the way it started) i feel that if anything, i'm pertecting her and our kids, the less anyone knows the more i grows, what really help my situation is that she doesnt even smoke or drink, and she knows that i do. and she and i agree that i would only smoke in me office, so my grow room is like my ME Zone, and Oddly she never once wanted to go in there but the kids try all the time(that when i just go insaine and loose my mind ( i never hit them i just act like i would if they try to go in my space) my oldest (5) has allmost givinup on wanting to go in, my middle child (3) makes up a reason to ask me something when ever im in there
i am also the only person who has a key to this room---- inshort i would say this, dont ever tell anyone- its bad enough you share online

GROWS before HOES or BROS

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why are you married. why go through all that shit with your kids? they are gonna find out eventually. i dont understand how you cant just tell your kids it none of there business and drop it. bad business buddy

I do "know the rules", but I haven't really gone through this before. My ex found out like a year into the relationship and we didn't end on a bad note. She specifcally told me she didn't tell anybody after we broke up since we still talk sometimes.

I know I am not going to tell this new one any time soon, I'm just wondering when is a good time to tell them? She is just like Juan talks about. I woke up this morning like 20 min after her and she had already smoked a bowl, and last night she just picked up the bong, handed it to me and told me to smoke another bowl. She went to the cannabis cup a couple of years ago and wants to move to amsterdam. And she is definetly hot as hell!

I usually don't bring women to my house because of my grow. I always tell them I have dicks for neighbors so I can't have anyone over. But this girl likes to just chill, watch a football game and smoke bowls. My ex didn't even smoke and the reason we hadn't moved in together after 3yrs is because I refused to quit growing.

There is no way I can go forever without telling the woman I am with. I am not saying this is the one I am going to marry or anything, its barely been over a month, but if any woman is going to be in my life for a long time I would like a partner in crime so to speak. I know I wont be telling her next month or even in the next 6 months, but it is definetly something that is on my mind.

if you like her like that make her a part of the operation. she smokes so thats coo. just be real with her. but let her know in a passive agressive way that if she fucks shit up you will fuck her up lol... for real tho.

i guess your not in cali

man you better be in love its only been a month grow your plants limit her coming over till flowering is over...go to her place,,,, once every thing is dried smoke with her get her fucked up,, then ask what you think if i started growin? becarefull doe cant trust everbody!!!

rember its only been a month and what if you get into a big fight she can tell the police or get you robbed pick one....

bongrippinbob said:

No one knows I grow except my mom, so I have kept it pretty quiet for the past 4 years.

What do you guys think about my opinion on the med stuff. If the cops did come with a warrant, they are looking for an illegal grow. The second I show them my card that means that its not illegal and they would have no reason to come in my home right? Plus an annonymous tip is not enough to get a warrant. I learned that on Kop Busters.

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I say never share information about your activity's unless you have enough or more dirt on them to send them away for just as long or longer.

I'm the one who told my boyfriend I wanted to grow, and we did.
Just tell her, if she's a cool chick she'd probably want to be involved in the process
If she's anything like me I would want to know so I could help out as much as I could. But that's me. Lol, I'd just say something like "What would you do or say if I said I grew, or was thinking about it?" And kinda start in like that. But that's just my point of view.

when you get married.,.,.,.,and are settled.,.,girlfriends get nasty when theres a x in front of the g.,.,.,

I am in cali and its a med grow, its just over the limit. I know she is cool with me growing, she said she wants to learn to grow and she knows "I used" to grow. She just doesn't know whats in the spare bedroom. I told her and everyone else that I rented the room out for storage and that I can't get in there.

never.....

She sounds like a stoner. You should collect her thoughts on you guys possibly growing together in the future, and go from there. Good Luck!

Anytime I look back on my life and there was fucked up bullshit going on there was always a woman involved. Everytime. The sweetest ones are the worse because you don't see it coming.

Having said that fuck it get her involved. Just make sure to get a couple of photos of her in the growroom....just in case.

Problem is you are over your limit which makes it illegal..I would consult with a Norml attorney! I'm not positive of the ramifications but it is no longer medical and legal if you are over the limit I would be very careful and get great advice from a lawyer of what happens if you get caught and have a retainer fee already paid.. I would also worry more about getting jacked from someone if things go bad then her calling the cops..I don't know man think about it really hard!

what if you break up and she turns you in....you would have to get a whole new place. Fuck her for right now, but that's IT! don't let her in on your grow stash, she didn't help u grow it did she? Wait for her to get her own place and then show her how to grow her own pot

FreddieMercury said:

never.....

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still got problems wit them dudes tryin to get cha lol

IMO I would be more owrried that after you piss her off (and you will eventually its not hard after say umm 3 months HAH) and she in over her friends house venting and her friends bother tommy hears and is 17 and an asshole and get 3 high school buddys and they fucking rob you one night when you and your girl get back together and are on a date... DONT SAY SHIT

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