Why doesn't it surprise me that you just got divorced?...hmmmmm...I'm sure it had NOTHING to do with you.
So, say you are a woman. And say, the guy you are married to, instead of nesting and buying furniture, etc, filled the house with trash and junk as you were trying to have it re-modeled. And so much was his Procrastination, that he has not worked for the last 6 years. So much is his Control Obsession, he will allow nothing to move forward.
So, for 15 years it is this despair of watching your dreams evaporate, and your house reduced to only fire sale value. Everything that you put your effort and money into, has become a fire trap and a safety hazard. Forget any friends or visitors. they abandoned us long ago. You know about pathological Hoarding right?. Everything became a fight to keep it a junk pile, for over a decade. I mean even contractors that I hired, she runs off, so they can't finish.
Actual un-retouched photos. See for yourself.
How much can you take? Look at that kitchen. I had to replace everything in there. No. The new stuff, that I put in 15 years ago and before we could even finish, the faucets and the stove crapped out. That stuff there is brand new second time.
So, what's love got to do with it? Love became despair.