I realize it looks as though she may have been mistreated, and under questionable growing conditions, but I dont think its too late to save her. She needs some love!(like any good female!) Get her into a 4 gallon pot pronto and give her some nutrients. Hopefully she will recover from the shock of the transplant quickly. Be very gentle with the roots, but try to spread them out in the fresh soil as you fill the pot slowly. Clean hands free of amino acids and oils from your skin will help reduce shock. Generally, droopy leves means theyre thirsty. You Guys know that! Its hard to tell from the pic, but I think its a bit early to tell the sex yet. Be cool and be careful!