Is it Really worth having A BF/GF?
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highboo
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HAHA! yea man. remember to take a quick smoke so it can be fun timeofficially on my bucketlist
silasraven
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its the same thing as putting in a crew member on your grow, you never know if their going to let it slip that he/you grows. its a huge risk that isnt worth some arrogant ass who doesnt care if you wined up in jail and your life is ruined. you cant trust anyone when it comes to growing pot. not to mention everytime you leave the grow you run the risk of you crew member/ g/f backing a truck up to the door and hauling away all the equiment and harvest before you get back.
cannabineer
Ursus marijanus
officially on my bucketlist
needing a bucket ... now that's optimism. cn
cannawizard
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cannabineer
Ursus marijanus
optimism is the only thing keeping me going
that's the spirit!! cn
Hepheastus420
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I think having somebody you truly love is something that should be cherished.
what's not worth it to have a bf/gf, is dealing with arguments or compromising on things that make you happy. So I guess there's a line (one that I haven't crossed), where it becomes worth it to have a bf/gf. There's a shit ton of benefits that come with not having to commit to somebody. I'm sure I don't have to explain those benefits
so I guess it becomes worth it when it becomes worth it.. when you find somebody who you would honestly sacrifice the benefits of being single for, hold onto that person.. But the only way you're gonna find that person is by dating and having BFs and GFs. So it's kind of a funny game, just have fun with it
oh and don't toss around the word "love" til you mean it.
what's not worth it to have a bf/gf, is dealing with arguments or compromising on things that make you happy. So I guess there's a line (one that I haven't crossed), where it becomes worth it to have a bf/gf. There's a shit ton of benefits that come with not having to commit to somebody. I'm sure I don't have to explain those benefits
so I guess it becomes worth it when it becomes worth it.. when you find somebody who you would honestly sacrifice the benefits of being single for, hold onto that person.. But the only way you're gonna find that person is by dating and having BFs and GFs. So it's kind of a funny game, just have fun with it
oh and don't toss around the word "love" til you mean it.
theloadeddragon
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labels are labels... what happens happens, if you arent open- you will be closed off, not that you cant be opened. If you are open, but unsure, then you may not cross that line. If you are closed off, but selfish, than you will hurt many. You may be open to things that only exist inside of yourself however. Its always important to catch our own skewing of perspectives... to Lust the green grass next door knowing its blades are poisonous to us . If you are you, and there is a long time of happiness and love... thats a real relationship. Hard work and dreams... helping each other fulfill needs and goals, loving and supporting and communicating... KNOW the person... etc etc etc.. so much advice out there...
But really- Do what you want. Just like my own most common growing advice is that I give about life- "It all depends." And "Its all up to you."
. If you are you, and there is a long time of happiness and love... thats a real relationship. Hard work and dreams... helping each other fulfill needs and goals, loving and supporting and communicating... KNOW the person... etc etc etc.. so much advice out there...But really- Do what you want. Just like my own most common growing advice is that I give about life- "It all depends." And "Its all up to you."
