Yep. If that is your argument, and it makes you sleep better at night, you go right ahead and believe that.
My rather large penis entered my girlfriend's anus, she yelped, tumbled across the bed, fell off the other side, was pissed. But guess what? I fucked her about 5 hours later. And I fucked her twice a day for the next few months until we broke up. She enjoyed my penis. Many girls do. The difference is, I treat them with respect as a person. Your kind does not. For the record, I apologized to her, and we laughed about it later.