You need to give basic information about your plants. Age, stage of growth, etc... hard to say much without knowing those basics
How much cal-mag are you using? what size dose does the bottle you have say that is? If you're using a combo supplement then you shouldn't have mg locking out ca.
You need to move your lights up first - 1.5' - 2'. You can always move them back down later.
If your nutrients are well blended into the water then any water absorbed by the soil is going to have those nutrients.
Are you using organic fertilizers? If not the molasses is pretty much useless as far as I know.
Remember anything you change as far as watering stuff in, moving lights, etc can take 2-3 days to actually see the results - not always instant, so be patient.
Oh yeah, check for thrips. Damage looks a little like ca deficiency.