Ladies, have you ever felt like you might be in a potentially dangerous situation?

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Fungus Gnat

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ruderalis88 said:
i have been sort of cornered into sex with guys for fear that if i say no it'll happen anyway. I'm a lesbian, and i don't actually enjoy having sex with guys, but there you go.
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Someone I know would do something we'd call gorilla pimping because he was 6'6 280lbs and played college football. He would invade women's personal space get close, be persistent and block their movements. It was like they were intimidated into going home with him and I do recall him having several police interviews over it(no charges), once even while attending police academy.

So I see how it can happen.
 
Padawanbater2

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ruderalis88 said:
Ahahaha good shout my friend! You also seem nice. Wouldn't it be crazy if it turned out we knew each other in real life?!

@Padawan - What do you mean by "legitimate" sexual assaults? Like "legitimate rape"?
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Rape is pretty clear cut, but 'sexual assault' seems like an ambiguous term. What defines sexual assault? I'd imagine an assault that had a sexual motivation, like flashing someone, right? What about an assault that's sexual in nature, like streaking, but isn't sexually motivated, is that sexual assault? Would it be sexual assault if someone gave you a purple nurple or a wedgie?

I was going to ask a more specific question but depending on the degree of the sexual assault(s), it could be in poor taste
 
ClaytonBigsby

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Padawanbater2 said:
Rape is pretty clear cut, but 'sexual assault' seems like an ambiguous term. What defines sexual assault? I'd imagine an assault that had a sexual motivation, like flashing someone, right? What about an assault that's sexual in nature, like streaking, but isn't sexually motivated, is that sexual assault? Would it be sexual assault if someone gave you a purple nurple or a wedgie?

I was going to ask a more specific question but depending on the degree of the sexual assault(s), it could be in poor taste
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kinetic

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One time I licked clean the inside of a breath assure bottle that dispensed LSD. After listening ti Nick Cave and The Bad Seeds' 'Murder Ballads' and Pyscidellic Breakfast by Pink Floyd I fled the house convinced the cops were coming to rape me. I hid in the tall grass in a field down the street 75 feet the traintracks. Apparently my friend had come looking for me but I was convinced he was a cop out to rape me so I remained hidden. Thankfully there were no sexual assaults that night.
 
lahadaextranjera

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sunni said:
ive never been in a situation like that or called for my concern
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Please put this down to luck!! Here's why:- one night when I walked into my building (I rang the doorbell and my ex let me in). All of a sudden my ex can hear my swearing (and swinging) at a man who came up behind me and touched me. He was going to rob me. He ran off and I couldn't run to the door to keep him in. We would have hurt him. I think it's quite typical that I get attacked and the attacker runs off!!! You can never be too sure. I'm don't walk the streets nervously, I know where I'm going. However I'm NOT an easy target.
 
Padawanbater2

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Are you saying it is more dangerous for a woman to be alone, especially at night? But isn't it also more dangerous for a man to be alone, especially at night?
 
lahadaextranjera

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Padawanbater2 said:
Are you saying it is more dangerous for a woman to be alone, especially at night? But isn't it also more dangerous for a man to be alone, especially at night?
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I also think the early mornings are dangerous!! I'm cautious around 6-8am if I'm still out. Men get done too, more robbery out here in Barca. Plus I lived right in the centre and would hear screams (from bag snatching) regularly from the balcony. If you can deal with the element of surprise you should be ok.
 
sunni

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lahadaextranjera said:
Please put this down to luck!! Here's why:- one night when I walked into my building (I rang the doorbell and my ex let me in). All of a sudden my ex can hear my swearing (and swinging) at a man who came up behind me and touched me. He was going to rob me. He ran off and I couldn't run to the door to keep him in. We would have hurt him. I think it's quite typical that I get attacked and the attacker runs off!!! You can never be too sure. I'm don't walk the streets nervously, I know where I'm going. However I'm NOT an easy target.
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thats crazy man, yeah ive never had it happen, i am lucky, i know
 
Steve French

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A girl grabbed/brushed by my ass once so after confronting her about her unwanted sexual advances and making me feel uncomfortable in the workplace I reported that bitch to HR and took stress leave by the time i returned her desk was empty and her husband divorced her and the next day i saw her outside the bank and she asked me for five bucks for a bottle of night train
 
Padawanbater2

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Come to think of it, I kind of actually was sexually assaulted once... I went to a party and right when I walked in one of my drunk coworkers grabbed my face and started making out with me, it was unexpected and I was completely surprised, there was no kind of consent given on my part at all. It's weird to put that into context from a males perspective, but flip the genders around and see what happens. If I were drunk at a party and my coworker came through the door and I grabbed her face and started kissing her without any warning, it would no doubt be seen as sexual assault and I'd probably even get my ass kicked by the rest of the people at the party if not taken to jail.

So that's an interesting double standard..
 
cannabineer

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Padawanbater2 said:
Come to think of it, I kind of actually was sexually assaulted once... I went to a party and right when I walked in one of my drunk coworkers grabbed my face and started making out with me, it was unexpected and I was completely surprised, there was no kind of consent given on my part at all. It's weird to put that into context from a males perspective, but flip the genders around and see what happens. If I were drunk at a party and my coworker came through the door and I grabbed her face and started kissing her without any warning, it would no doubt be seen as sexual assault and I'd probably even get my ass kicked by the rest of the people at the party if not taken to jail.

So that's an interesting double standard..
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I would have punched him. cn
 
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Padawanbater2 said:

Are these legitimate sexual assaults?
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If you consider having one put ones hand up your shirt, skirt..corner you in elevator to feel u up..put his hands down your pants..corner you in a bedroom..grab your hand to put down his pants to feel him..then yes.."legitimate"

how disturbing that you had to ask..does that make you happy?

maybe you should look up the definition..
 
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