I need to work on the approach. I hear being clubbed around the head and dragged over terra firma by the hair back to some kind of cave isn't the done thing anymore. Pity. Mmm maybe extraction is the thing to do blind fold, gag, slap on the bum over the shoulder happy days.
I'm eyeballing dankdalia. think she's spotted me too.
Perhaps the way forward is to just be there, not offer solutions just listen.